05/05/2025
*We have carefully observed 18 mistakes that wives make we continued by also observing 18 mistakes that men make*
1. *Neglecting Emotional Connection*: focusing only on physical or financial needs while neglecting your wives emotional needs and this is very risky infact may I say this is the number one cause of cheating in marriage I know you are working heard to Carter for needs but we must try to also meet her emotional needs.
2. *Not Listening*: hearing her talk but not but not truly paying attention shows lack of value and respect
3. *Failing To Express Love Verbally*: Assuming you love her without expressing it regularly she knows you love her but she wants to hear you say it constantly..
4. *Being Too Harsh Or Critical*: constant correction or negative comments will crush her and once she runs into her shell getting her out will be difficult.
5. *Avoiding Responsibility*: Failing to lead spiritually, financially and Emotionally in the home.. women want their men to always take the lead. bring initiative that will drive the family forward.
6. *Poor Communication*: silence creates distance, honest talk builds closeness. What do u need to say that is not said?
7. *Emotional Withdrawal*: avoiding conflicts weakens connection. Are u present in body but absent in heart
8. *Ignoring Her Voice In Decision*: partnership means respecting her insight, let her opinion count confide in her seek for advice from her let her have an input in your decision making. Do u lead by listening?
9. *Taking Her For Granted*. Gratitude strengthens love... I know she will forgive me She doesn't have a choice. I know she will not bother, oh forget about my wife. When last did u thank her for something?
10. *Letting Work Overtake Home*. You can actually provide without abandoning her needs too be it emotional needs or any need. This has destroyed many homes n marriages today. Work is good but don't allow work to take the place of your wife and home. Is your presence felt more at home or at work.
