05/08/2025
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"Pls help,. I'm broken. I'm 40years old, a very successful business man, been married for about 3 years now, we have a 2yr old son & my wife is 2 months pregnant
I chased my wife for 8 whole months, convincing her into dating me, she wasn't accepting & at the same time wasn't denying my advances towards her & my requests of her being my woman. She just stayed in the middle, but most times, she'll usually ask me for financial help & I'll grant it.
But at one point i persisted even when she tries avoiding the topic, I'll persist asking her to give me a direct answer if she really wants me or not & instead of leaving me hanging. That day, she finally opened up & told me she's already in a relationship & can't be with me
I moved on, but about a month later, she contacted my line again & told me she had thought about what i said & has decided to give it a try, when i asked about her boyfriend she said, she had broken up with him. Later the next month, she told me that she was pregnant. I asked her to take me to her people. And I married her. While expecting our son. And I've loved & cherished my family.
A few months ago, my wife started acting strange. She would come home late, often miss my calls, & had a nasty attitude. And also deny me access to her bΓΈdy. Every time I asked her about her whereabouts, she would answer rudely. She became petty; she stopped cooking dinner & being affectionate, & all that. I thought things would go back to normal, but no, they just got worse each day.
Just a few days ago, my wife & I had a huge argument. She went out & came back the following day. I called her a thousand times, but she didn't answer; I texted, but there was no reply. I confronted her about where she had spent the night, & instead of giving me a valid reason, she answered me rudely & was very petty. She was nothing like the woman I married.
I let it slide. She did it again, & I lost it. We argued, & then she confessed that our son is not mine & that I should grant her a divorce cuz she's tired of pretending & has never loved me, and that the real father of my son, including the one that she's carrying wants them back. I didn't believe a single word she said. I thought maybe she was only trying to hurt me, but it turns out she was telling the truth.
I'm completely shattered; I don't even know what to do. I've grown to love this boy and I'm so attached to him. How do i even start from hereπ I've been a good man. Doing everything to satisfy my wife and keep my family happy and save. Pls, tell me where i went wrong?
I'm yet to tell my family; I don't know if her family knows about this.