Epitome Of Love

21/07/2025

DON'T IN COURTSHIP

If you want divine backing of God in your marriage you need to make sure your courtship satisfy Him. By avoiding the Don’t in Courtship listed below:

1. DON’T look to the world. The world wants you to think that your happiness depends on finding the perfect guy – or girl. But this just isn’t true. If you are a believer in Christ, then your joy is found in Him.


2. DON’T be prideful. I think this can be one of the biggest pitfalls. So don’t convince yourself that you know it all and understand everything. Walk in humility. Those who are proud don't last long in a relationship no matter how anointed they are

3. Don’t neglect God in your courtship. You can't have a beautiful courtship without God.

4. Don’t pretend in courtship. Be yourself and let your partner know who you are.

5. Don’t have a secret courtship. Let your pastor, friends and parent know. Anyone who is trying to hide you from his pastors, friends and parents is a boy. Let him grow first before thinking about relationship.

6. Don’t double date. Doubting dating is a sin. And anyone who double dates is never in love. Love is focus!

7. Sister!!! Don’t turn yourself to the brother’s cook or launderer. Wait until after wedding. After wedding, You will cook and watch until Jesus come! So why the rush?

8.Never cohabit. Living together before marriage is ungodly. If you must live together, get married

9. Never be unfaithful in courtship. It is better to be single and searching than being in an unfaithful relationships. An unfaithful person can't make a good spouse

10.Never have a focusless courtship. The number one purpose of courtship is marriage. If you are not ready for marriage in the next one year or two, you have no business with relationship. Face your studies, business and evangelism.

11. Kissing, hugging, pecking, necking, and fondling MUST be avoided. Don't do anything you can't do in JESUS name during your courtship. If you must kiss, kiss on your wedding day!

12. Pre-marital s*x places marital destiny under a serious curse. So Never have s*x in courtship! If you must have s*x, let it be on your wedding night.

13. Courtship is not a period for joint business or account. It is not a period to start wearing same attires. Wait until after wedding. You are not married Until you are married,

14. Avoid holding meetings behinds close doors. Anything can happen no matter how anointed you are. Ask the mighty men and women that fell into s*x sin yesterday. Don't tempt the devil.

15. Avoid sleeping in the same room, no matter the circumstances. Many of those people who tried that yesterday ended up with "HAD I KNOWN"!

May you not join them in Jesus name

16. Avoid holding meetings in dark places unless you are children of darkness.

17.Avoid late night visits even if you are a security man

18. Avoid staying together for a long time, doing nothing. An idle hand is a devil's workshop

19.Avoid prayerlessness

20. Avoid sending your n**e picture to any stupid guy. Any guy who demands for your n**e pix is worst than the devil. RUN!

21. Don't wave away danger signals during courtships! Do not be blind to reality before marriage because of what you feel for each other. The fact remains that you will live with reality when you are finally married. Ignoring those key character issues before marriage is one negative step towards a painful marital relationship.

You will not miss it in marriage in Jesus name!

Pst Bisi Adewale

21/07/2025

Dear Brother

5 LAWS ON ASKING A LADY OUT.

1) Be Sure what You Want from her First.

it's very bad for a lady you are "toasting" to ask you EXACTLY what you want, and you are STUTTERING, telling her you people should start first, start wetin first? Na generator?

My friend, will you enter a taxi if the driver is not sure of his destination, and he tells you to enter first?

Will you enter?

2) Don't start calling her sweet names yet

You are applying for ADMISSION, don't talk like a GRADUATE.

Aim high, but start small, like referring to her by her name first, when the gbedu don enter body, she'll be the one suggesting sweet names for you to call her. Till then, calm down.

She's still processing your application, she said she'll think about it, which one is "My Love, baby, sweetheart, my pumpkin, how about my proposal"

America have not given you visa, you are already speaking "in it, in it"..... kontinu Sir...

3) Give her small Space during the waiting period. .

Even Jesus Christ the Son of God, when he knocks at the door of our heart, he WAITS for us to open eet.

Your own, you want to break the door..

10 missed calls in 10 minutes.

6:05am
"BABY, what of that thing I told you about?"
(you've broken 2 laws here already)

6;07am
"Vicky, please don't forget me, I'm waiting"

7;00am
"My Love, give me a chance na, you won't regret It".. Uncle, she's already regretting giving you her number..

4) Don't Demand An instant Answer.

I won't advise you to demand a lady to give you her answer there and then.

A right thinking Lady will want to be sure you are normal before saying Yes to you. it's nothing out of the ordinary.

If she says she just wants to be friends with you first, don't walk away, you should be happy when a lady says this, it means she's trying to study and get to know you, it means you have a chance to win her heart and be elected into office if you perform in the primaries (friendship) well..

Be Patient.

5) If it becomes apparent that she's just using your proposal to keep herself warm like cardigan, or she's just wasting your time and she's not actually interested in you, Jejely walk away.

is proposal you propose, you didn't commit sin.

Thank You.

Except a lady really really likes you, breaking these laws can turn off any Lady who may have otherwise given you a chance and cost you a potential relationship/marriage.

(c) Musa Gift

20/07/2025

I regularly take my daughters on dates because I’ve noticed something
Some girls in this country see ordinary dates or outing as luxury.

Me, I’m trying to teach my girls the basics of life early, so no man will use shawarma to impress and manipulate them.
And to be honest, it’s not even expensive to take your daughters on dates.

My mum taught me this.
That’s why exposure matters.
We weren’t rich growing up, but my mum made sure we had small life.
She made sure we experienced what they call “luxury” now even if it was just once in a while.

I’m always happy when I see men at Shoprite or restaurants with their daughters.
You don’t need to break the bank.
Even if it’s one child at a time take them out.
Call it a proper date.
Teach them how to behave on dates.
Show them what respect looks like.
And show them they deserve are worthy of love early.

A lot of girls are misbehaving today not because of poverty but because their childhood lacked the basic things.
The things we didn’t teach or expose them to are now being weaponized against them.

A man taking you out isn’t a license to touch you.
If your father gave you small outings growing up, you won’t see date night as a ticket to open leg.

A man buying you a phone or gift doesn’t mean it’s time for you to travel to Jerusalem with him.
Your father can do these small things too.

Dear men:
🔹Always buy your daughter a gift.
🔹Always take them out.
🔹Always sit them down and teach street sense.

Because what you fail to do for your daughter, someone will try to do it for N20k and ala ya van van van on top.

If I tell you that Ana eji because of chicken and pizza na ala some girls Ihe na adiro mma you won’t believe it.
How much is that kwanu.

Don’t allow a boyfriend take the role of a father and use that and take advantage of your daughter

Let’s preach this one.

Written by
Kelvin Onovo

16/07/2025

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15/07/2025

5 THINGS YOU MUSTN'T BE CONFUSED ABOUT IN A RELATIONSHIP.

1) WHAT (IDENTITY)

When after six months of calling somebody "my love" "my world" "my destiny"
and throwing "I love you" and "I love you too" back and forth like table tennis, and you still can't place a hand on what is going on

Then there is problem.

2) WHY (MOTIVE)

Even before the Relationship starts, settle the why.

Is it Love? Is it pity? Or Is it Lust?

Is it for friendship or marriage or for Fun?

If there's one question I always ask people who come for counseling, it's "Do you love him/her?" and "Does he/she love you"

If No, then Why are you/they doing it?

3) WHERE. (DESTINATION)

The Relationship is going somewhere, but you don't know where it is going, after 3 years, what if it is going to sambisa forest?

Bro Bernard and Sis Funke, dey play.

A JOURNEY without a DESTINATION is most likely going to end up as a WASTE OF TIME. .

LADIES, Fear any young Man that cannot answer this question "Where is this Relationship headed?"

Statements like "I don't know for now, let's see how it goes"

And YOUNG MEN, before you start pestering any lady for a Relationship, answer this question.

"Where do I want it to end?"

4) WHEN (TIMEFRAME)

Many ladies I've counseled tell me each time they ask their 'fiancees' when he intends to "do something", the replies are usually one of the following

✔️ Don't rush me (when you were rushing her to accept your proposal nko)

✔️ I'm not ready yet (and you asked her out, soldier ant bite you there)

✔️ I want to make money first (while Aunty is growing old, tomorrow you'll now dump her for someone younger)

As an Adult, date with a time frame in mind.

Don't date as if you're immortal.

5) DO YOU WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH THIS PERSON (CONVICTION)

Be sure you actually intend to marry the person you accept/chose to date.

I mean, as a lady for example, how can you be accept and be dating a Guy you don't plan to marry?

What If he proposes tomorrow?
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I leave you with this words by Apostle Johsua Selman Nimmak
"Confusion in a Relationship is a sign that there is no clarity"

SEEK CLARITY IN THAT YOUR RELATIONSHIP. GOD BLESS

(c) Musa Gift

04/06/2025

Single ladies, before you say yes please read this.
🔴How to Know If a Man Has Drive or Will Be Deadweight ......15 Signs to Watch For

1. He is content doing the bare minimum.
He shows up at work, does the least, comes home, and melts into the couch or bed. No hunger to grow, no interest in stretching himself. If a man is okay with routine survival, he won't suddenly become a visionary just because you married him.

2. He always says "one day," but that day never comes.
He has 10 ideas, 5 business plans, and 3 passions... but zero ex*****on. You've been hearing the same dream for years, and he hasn't moved a finger. Potential without discipline is just noise.

3. He shuts down when life gets hard.
Small pressure, and he ghosts everyone. Job loss? He checks out for months. He doesn’t pivot, he pauses. And if he's emotionally immature, guess who ends up cleaning up the storm? You.

4. He can't handle correction, even when it's gentle.
If everything sounds like an insult to him, he's not ready for growth. A man who refuses feedback will drag you into his cycle, where you're either silent or walking on eggshells. That’s not peace, it’s control.

5. You're the only one thinking about the future.
He doesn't ask about savings, health, family goals, or housing plans. Meanwhile, you're mentally raising a child, budgeting for both of you, and setting alarms for bills he forgets. That’s not partnership... that’s parenting.

6. His life lacks structure, and he likes it that way.
He wakes up whenever, scrolls all day, and lives reactively. No daily readings, no consistent habits, no long-term goals. Men like this will frustrate you with inconsistency... then accuse you of being too serious.

7. He speaks like a king, but walks like a pawn.
Everything is big—big plans, big money, big future—but he won’t show up early, read a book, or finish one task before jumping to the next. Real ambition is quiet and disciplined, not loud and scattered.

8. You’re already carrying most of the weight.
He leans on you for emotional support, financial help, decision-making... even motivation to get out of bed. If you're doing all the work before marriage, don’t expect the ring to change anything.

9. He feels intimidated by your ambition.
Instead of celebrating your drive, he competes with it... or quietly resents it. He may not say it outright, but you'll feel it in how he downplays your wins or withdraws when you shine. That’s not love, that’s a stress response.

10. His circle is full of stagnant men.
If his closest friends don’t challenge him, inspire him, or hold him accountable, don’t expect him to be different. A man is rarely more serious than the company he keeps.

11. He doesn’t plan for crisis, just vibes.
Ask him what he'd do if he lost his job or faced a health scare, and he’ll say, “God will provide.” Faith is beautiful, but faith without wisdom is dangerous. You need someone who has a plan... not just prayers.

12. He is jealous of people doing better than him.
He sees a successful man and says, “He’s a fraud” or “It’s just connection.” He doesn’t ask, “What can I learn?” He asks, “Why him?”

13. He is passive about your growth.
He doesn’t push you to grow, doesn’t ask about your dreams, doesn’t celebrate your wins, and doesn’t make room for your ambition. A partner who doesn’t sharpen you will eventually dull you.

14. He glorifies struggle in the name of love.
To him, your loyalty is measured by how much lack you can endure beside him. He wants to "build with you"... but has no blueprint. If all he brings is a dream and suffering, what exactly are you building?

15. You’re exhausted, but still trying to convince yourself it’s love.
Deep down, your spirit is already tired. You’re parenting a grown man while calling it partnership. Love should feel like peace... not like you’re always one crisis away from collapse.

Written by
Ifedayo Agoro Itom (Dang)

04/06/2025

Let's have it👇

22/05/2025

22/05/2025

Ladies!!!📌 It is not everything you put into your va**na in the name of lubrication. This advice of pouring yoghurt on your va**na in the name of "getting wet" can lead to yeast infection. Most yoghurt you see around contains sugar, preservatives and all kinds of additives that can be very dangerous to your va**nal health.

In fact, with the way some of you ladies are going, you'll soon begin to add ice-cream, shawarma and yaji to your veejay so you can be wet and sweet 🙄🙄

While the yoghurt might not outrightly disrupt the PH balance of your va**na (Yoghurt and va**na are both acidic and have similar average range on the ph scale, somewhere between 4.0 to 4.6), the yoghurt might introduce the added sugars and flavours into body making you deal with after effects you didn't bargain for.

If you need to lubricate by external means.. something natural as cold-pressed coconut oil will do.

To stimulate lubrication from the inside out, use herbs like fenugreek, maca, ginseng or ginkgo biloba or good ol' saffron. Drink them often. Also work on your mood and practice relaxation. You will drip 💦

Don't put yourself at risk while trying to have fun. Vaginal Infections can be embarrassing. There is nothing funny about them.

A word is enough for the wise.

Share this information with a sister or tag her she has her yoghurt secured and ready to pour🙄🙄

To your wellness and safety,
Priscilla Canice-Obi 💚

22/05/2025

Pure Truth

21/05/2025

😂😂😂 cold water to bath, off light, pretend you are sleeping, don't move body 🤣🤣

21/05/2025

Why did he run back🤣🤣🤣🤣