Desiren

27/09/2025

May I never meet a man with this kind of mentality.🤮🤮
So I should quit a job that is paying me well in other for a man to sustained his ego has my husband and head of the family. Omo. May nobody try this nonsense with meoooo

27/09/2025

I'm so sad😭😭😭 we lost my favorite couples content creator. Oh my Ggoodness 😭😭😭

27/09/2025

I SAW MY HUSBAND AND HIS FRIEND WATCHING P**N ON TV IN OUR SITTING ROOM, I PASSED THEM AND WENT INTO THE BATHROOM, TO MY SURPRISED THEY CAME IN AND PINNED ME DOWN ON THE FLOOR, THEY SLAPPED AND RAPPED ME😭

I will love to use your platform to inform my entire family why l left my husband. 17 of my family members are on Raw, and this will be the first time they will hear this truth from me. I left my husband in 2015 to live by myself with my son in an apartment.

I have refused to open up cause my Pastor at the time asked me to cover him.
Mummy, if you are reading this, I am sorry I blocked you all on Facebook and Whatsapp. My peace is essential to me, that's why.
My name is Funmilayo Oderinde, formally known as Mrs.Marinade.
I walked into our home after working a 12 hours shift at the hospital. I met my husband and his friend, drinking in the living room and watching p**n on TV.
I passed by them and entered the bathroom to take a bath, but to my greatest surprise, I saw my husband and his friend naked as they came into the bathroom. I screamed, but he got me pinned down to the bathroom floor. Pastor Shola, I was slapped and rapped by both of them.
They left me there inside my blood, and I reach out to my phone to call our Pastor, who stopped by to take me to the hospital.
The Pastors wife picked by son up from the daycare and kept him for 3 days as I was at the hospital getting treatment.
I didn't return to the house. I am still in shock, but the Lord is my strength.
Mummy, that's my story. You forced me to marry this animal, and I gave him a green card and worked to pay bills for him.
I blocked you all because I don't want anybody to preach to me. I have made up my mind, and I am taking it one step at a time.
If you guys need to get in touch with me, go through Dr.
I am alive and safe.
Thanks.

26/09/2025

She wasn't a Christian or Muslim when we met. She was a town babe. I asked her to leave the streets and move into my boys' quarters. I offered her a job to clean my house and feed my dogs. Within 4 months, she turned into a pretty girl.

I liked what I saw and increased her salary to 100k/month—one day she came into the house to see me, and her beauty caught my eye. That was how it all started. She was 21 at the time. I sponsored her makeup training and eventually set her up. In 2022, we got married and had a son. My problem is that my family refused to see her as my wife. They disrespect her every time they come around. This is bre.aking my heart. She is a Christian now, and she is a well-behaved lady. The mother of my son. How can I erase the story I shared with my family from their mind? So that my wife could be respected

25/09/2025

THIS IS MY HUSBAND AND HIS SIDE CHICK

'‎This is my husband & his side chick. I'm currently going through depression cuz of these two. Look, ‎​Benita, I understand that you & my husband have been seeing each other for over 2 years now. I've consistently tried & done everything possible within my power to make you leave my husband, but I've failed.

You've insisted on seeing him & even sent me warning messages telling me that I can't do anything & that I'll kneel in public & beg you. My dear Benita, I'm tired of fi-y-tin you for my man; I'm so tired that I now give up. But please, I'm kneeling & begging you Benita , pls do anything that you want with my husband. But Please, do not take his love & responsibilities away from his kids.

‎​I used to work as a nurse, but this man made me quit my job after our wedding & to become a full-time housewife, saying he'd give me the same amount I got from my job as my monthly allowance. For the sake of peace , love and respect that i have for my husband i did just as he said. I quited my job just to make him happy , despite that i was the sole bread winner of my family after my parents had struggled to see me through school. I did it , just to make the man tht i love, my husband happy so.he can love me more and let they be peace in my home.

For the past 7 years of marriage, he's been the one taking care of the bills, including my monthly allowance as promised. But it's been over 2 years now that he stopped doing anything for us. For over two years, I've been the one paying the house bills, our feeding, & the children's fees. ‎​Sometimes my husband stays for months without coming home or even asking about his own children.

I'm in so much debt as we speak & have virtually become a street beggar just so my children can at least eat. I would have left this marriage long ago, but I can't cuz of my children. I'm still here cuz of my kids. I'm currently on HBP medication, & I'm going through depression cuz of this lady.

Please, I need your advice. 😭😭😭 Because I don't know what to do anymore. I'm going through all this p'n & suffering with my 3 children, meanwhile, their daddy is a very wealthy man.

‎​Benita, I know that I can't match up to your beauty, but please, you are a woman like me; have mercy on me and my kids. I'm begging you Benita, please have mercy on this poor wœman 😭😭😭'
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25/09/2025

When someone asked me what I really want in life
Oni Foto

23/09/2025

My container don land ooo

22/09/2025

This is Africa

21/09/2025

WHAT IS YOUR TAKE ON THIS MATTER?
REALLY I HAVE NEVER SEEN OR HEARD OF THIS KIND THING🙃🙃🙃

My wedding was supposed to held today .But was cancelled because of my mother in-law three weeks ago

What was my offense? I know you all would want to know .It's because I called my husband's niece (my husband's sister's daughter) by her name .She is 11 years old .While I'm 29 years .. She is just preparing for her Common entrance while I'm a master degree holder .

I called my husband's sister's daughter to please come and help me to zip down my cloth while i bent down to make it easier for her then my mother in-law came and said i was rude .I was shocked and i asked in total respect what I did.

She said why would I call Temilade by her name instead of "aunty Temilade "...I said "but ma , Temilade is not my aunty ,I can't address her by that" ..She said she is my small mother in-law and I must respect her .

But I didn't disrespect her in any way ..She then said I must be calling her Aunty Temilade.

I didn't say anything again because the whole thing was beginning to p**s me off ..And there comes one of my husband's nieces again. 15 years ,I told that one that it's good to see her (in Yoruba language).

My mother in-law said she can't tolerate any disrespect from me that why am I using O for her instead of E (Yoruba people will understand this)..... .....I had to voice out that mum I'm the first child of my parents and I have four siblings .The fourth one is 21 years old .And these girls are not even up to him .How come she wants me to be calling them aunty ?? When they are not even my aunty ...

She said if I can't address them as "aunty " I should forget about the marriage .I was shocked and I said no problem .

I called my husband- to -be and he joined us..She explained to him and my husband to be said I should address them as Aunty

I told him I'm so sorry,I can't be humiliated to such .I do not believe in that .This is 2025 ..

I am a peaceful person and very respectful.But can't be subjected to calling someone I am 18 years older than ,Aunty ..No ,it hurts my pride to do so

She then said from two years old the smallest to the eldest ,I must address them as Uncle ,brother ,sister ,aunty .I said I can't . There's no need for pretense about this .

She placed a call and told the head of the family that the marriage is canceled .My husband was there saying my PRIDE is killing me .I said PRIDE ? For refusing to address kids I'm 15,18,20 ,27 years older than aunty and uncle??? Noooo. I won't

She asked me to leave the house that the marriage is canceled.Thank God i haven't packed my loads from my previous place .I just called my sister to stop dismantling the room that I would still retain it .

My husband to be blocked me in all social media .And it makes more sense of what i never thought or expected

We all have where we are good at .But please blame me if you like .I won't subject myself to call someone I'm older than with 15 years or more Aunty ...If that means I'm rude .Please let it be

We can't be good at all areas . I'm not good at that

I will heal and move on
I have been a sweet and kind person .I have treated my mother in-law well .I am not a rude type at all .But not just seeing myself doing that .

This is not what they call prideness .You can't call me rude for calling children I'm older than by their names in this century.

It was easier for our mothers then in the very olden days because they marry early.Some married at the age of 15,16.18 with no purpose and self worth .

You can't compare to me that have achieved a master degree ,have a successful business that I run ,have a skill I used as a side hustle
,doing well financially to be subjected to calling someone who doesn't have A common entrance certificate Aunty...lol 😆 😆 😆 I won't be able to ...I can't even be that

People from poor background are really suffering.Imagine if I was Otedola's daughter or Adeleke . I'm sure they wouldn't have approached me with such .

I hustle till the stage I am and I will keep hustling till I get there .

I'm single guys .Pray for me and wish me well

21/09/2025

Happy Sunday to y'all

19/09/2025

I don't just understand what Facebook is doing now, you will post one video and they split it into playlists. Making it part 1 to 6 or whatever numbers they deem fit. Its frustrating man

19/09/2025