23/04/2026
A word is enough for the wise.
If I didn’t marry this Esan girl, I would have still been single up till now. Reasons being that;
1. I had my enumerated attributes of ideal wife for me, and any woman that would be my wife would have to have nothing less than 80% of those attributes.
2. I live outside my region, so I meet probably more ladies from other regions than my region daily.
3. In few occasions, I met some ladies from my region who possess these attributes, but unfortunately, I do not possess the attributes they also want to see in their would be husbands , so it didn’t workout between us.
4. A lot of other times, I met some ladies from my region whom I possess the attributes they want to see their would be husbands, but they didn’t have the attributes I wanted to see in my would be wife.
So this cycle continued, till I met this Esan Lady, in whom I saw everything I wanted in my would be wife, who also saw everything she wanted in her would be husband. So if I didn’t marry her because she’s not from my tribe, chances are, I would have had to tinker with my standards, or keep searching till it becomes too late.
