HEART Clinic Center with counsellor Onun Nneota Ude

26/02/2024

Don't kill yourself, this phase will surely pass by

26/02/2024

19/02/2024

Be calm don't kill yourself, all will be better as far as there's God in heaven.
He will carry us through

07/11/2023

The three dimension a man must attain before thinking of getting married
(1) He must learn how to be a provider and a protector
(2) He must learn how to be a father and
(3) He must learn how to be a priest

17/10/2023

WHY YOU NEED TO PRAY FOR YOUR GIRL CHILD. 🙋

It is believed that the girl child is the canopy of the family.

She is a pride to the family
A mother to the family
An attribute to the family
A shame to the family
A blessing to the family

👀. A shame to the family 👀
You might be wondering why I said a shame to the family.
A girl child is faced with a lot of challenges, which when not looked out properly might be something you never expect.

For instance
If your girl child is up to a period of where she need to start looking good because as a girl if you're not clean you will start having body odours😷😷 and no guy will be interested in you. And it is a challenge.
If you don't learn to train your children to an upright standard you will end up crying because she will definitely bring shame to the family.
Such as
🖕Unwanted pregnancy
✌Teens parenting
💅 Prostitution
Abd lots more

A girl child needs to be properly cared for and guided. Bounded in full time prayers.

👁 Dear beautiful ladies
In your beauty add character
In your character add God
In your ways be prayerful
Because anything you do now at this age affects you entirely and can bring you down unless the grace of God

To some extends parents where doing the best for their kids by trying to protect the interest of the girl child. When parents sees you with a guy as a girl by the road side or hear you making conversation with a guy, you will face the pains of life.
Many girls phones has been seized by their parents'.
But I asked is that the Best
Are they really doing good
Or are they caging u

What should we say

For me to an extent it has helped many girls in life.
What girls feels is that at that stage of ss1 they are in their right senses to go into relationship

Dear girls, relationship is a school that you must be a good student before you're called into marriage.
👋 Parenting is difficult most especially when it comes to the girl child.
The best secret of a mother is to pray for her girl child.

17/10/2023

My woman is my woman.
Her past is her past.
If you took advantage of her and couldn't show her enough love to keep her, that's your loss.
If you've ever slept with her or you know people who have slept with her, that's your problem.
Every woman has a past she surely regrets and every good human being makes mistakes, but that doesn't prevent her from being an ideal woman for another man.
Have you seen her sleepless nights🌙 ? Have you seen her longing to belong? Have you seen how others took advantage of her? Before you met her, did you know the trauma she went through? After you left, did you ever had the guts to check on her wellbeing?

That she went through what she did and got her heart broken but survived is okay for me.
Yes, she made certain bad decisions. Yes, she smoked and kept bad company. But she's clean now. If not, she has someone to help her go through her issues and come out renewed and a better person. Just cut her some slack, reduce the gossip and let her be.

If she was your sister, wouldn't you defend her, pray for her, help her and wish her luck?

Ladies and gentlemen, let's take time to make other people happy, to value and to get others to respect our women instead of taking time to listen to the criticisms and to encourage those hypocrites to denigrate our women.

Who doesn't have a past? I had mine, maybe worse. But she overlooked that and accepted me too.

She is my queen now. I will keep her and soothe her. She’s broken but I will help her through it. She has trust issues but I will rebuild her trust again. She’s timid but I will make her strong. She feels unloved but I will love her to the moon and back.
Tell me It's not love. Yes. It's none of your business!

to educate others.Cheers 🥂

Copied from Counsellor Francis Pinwilliams

14/10/2023

Yesterday I made a contribution on a public post I saw around about how the talk of partnership can not be overemphasized in a detailed marriage phase.

The wedding was together, the marriage is together, the s*x is/was together, the pregnancy has to be totally together, and ofcourse the childbirth should be together as well. Raising the child surely is not the woman's responsibility alone.

We are in an environment where most fathers are so busy with work, sadly some father's who do 8-5pm jobs leave the house very early before even the kids wake up just to beat traffic and cone back late when the kids are retiring to bed or have even done so because of one reason or the other.

I know there is a pressure to play the PROVIDER. But there are two more Ps which is PROTECTOR AND PRIEST. Balance has to be found somehow. Emotional support is needed. I have also realized that most men are not too sensitive to the needs of their wives.

This is why a man comes home, take his bath and have his meal and after spending some minutes on the TV want to immediately get down to having s*x, a s*x dimension he did not process from the morning because he had to leave so early.

Now you are coming home to meet an emotionally drained woman who has been combining baby sitting, with chores and meals and the one who works like you isn't emotionally available because of so many complications already

Fatherhood is responsibility. It's not about making a baby, it is not about how you use your manhood now. It is a different dimension of love language that provides emotional security for your wife. It is a system that compliments a worn out wife and is supposed to provide support.

Women are recievers. Men are givers
Cheers ♥️
Copied

14/10/2023

As a woman if your pride will not let you submit to a man just forget marriage. Only serve God with all your heart and make heaven.

14/10/2023

LOVING ❤ THE WRONG PERSON

Behind every broken heart💔 is someone who trusted the wrong person, gave his/her heart to the wrong person, loved and was never loved in return, sacrificed a lot for a lover💕 who was not worth it, hoped for someone who did not fulfil the hope, committed to the wrong relationship with someone who was not worth the commitment, etc.

Just remember this: Loving💞 the wrong person is not the end of life. Loving💞 the wrong person does not mean you will never be able to love💗 again, loving💞 the wrong person does not mean you are a loser.

Just like the stages of development of a butterfly, there are the ugly stages of larva and pupae but the adult is a beautiful butterfly that every person admires. Experiencing an ugly heart break does not mean you shall never live to experience a beautiful love💗 once more.

Heart break conditions someone how to live to experience true love💗 and appreciate it when it comes along in the future.

Someone who knows thirst really knows the value of water🗯️ more than someone🤎 who has never experienced thirst; thus someone who has ever suffered a major heart break really appreciates when true love💗 comes along than someone who has never been heart broken.💔

to educate others. Cheers 🥂

14/10/2023

LOSING INTEREST in a RELATIONSHIP happens mostly when one of the two starts getting bored either of the relationship or with the partner. Boredom sets in a relationship when partners start to take each other for granted and assume passive roles expecting everything to run on AUTO-PILOT...✍🏾

Romantic relationships are very delicate, they need to be nourished properly or else there is a big risk of weakening or fading of the relationship. A Love Relationship is like a garden whose productivity doesn't only rely on soil fertility but constant gardening and caring. So, for a strong healthy relationship, partners MUST work all the time with concerted effort and have passion because passion is what runs a relationship.

If your partner asks for space or a break in the relationship, you can assume that the matter is too serious and may even be beyond repair. Asking for space is always a sign of trouble in the relationship or an impending break-up.

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14/10/2023

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14/10/2023

Dear Men,

THE MISTAKE OF MEN

When we find a woman who loves us,
we tell ourselves she will never leave us because she loves us too much to leave us.

So we start neglecting her and talking bad about her.
Sometimes because of the love she carries for us, we always wait for her to call us first.
We always wait for her to force things.
We always wait for her to send us messages and take ages to reply.
We can't find any time for her and
sometimes we tell her Mean words to hurt her.

We put her down by comparing her to our exes.
We bring her down by reminding her of all her past.
We don't give her anything to take care of her.
We disrespect her.
We don’t listen.
We do horrible things sometimes because we know she loves us.

When she finds better somewhere else and decides to leave us,
we tell that she is not a good woman.

The woman we treat like a trash will sooner or later become the queen of a man who knows the value of a woman.
Such is life. Learn! Before it's too late.
We think we know it all. We know Nothing!

to educate others. Cheers!

11/10/2023

Do not let anyone make you feel less human,

05/05/2023

Congratulations on your m.sc dear friend

Heart clinic centre with counsellor Onun Nneota ude, celebrate you as they greatly wish you a very big congratulations on your convocation dear friend. We pray for greater Hight our esteemed friend.

05/05/2023

Heart clinic centre with counsellor Onun Nneota ude, celebrate you as they greatly wish you a very big congratulations on your convocation dear friend. We pray for greater Hight our esteemed friend.