I Be Mumu Abi Na Me Mess Up?

I Be Mumu Abi Na Me Mess Up? Na just gist and lesson. No be insult - we dey use laugh take heal and reason life.

I canceled plans today… again (Friday night).Not because I hate my friends. Not because I’m wicked.But because my body w...
27/06/2025

I canceled plans today… again (Friday night).
Not because I hate my friends. Not because I’m wicked.
But because my body was shouting “rest.”
My mind just wanted quiet.

Still, I feel guilty.
I said yes, and now I’m the flaky friend.

But what do you do when your peace is more important than people’s expectations?

Is it selfish? Or is it self-care?

I’m asking for real.

Because this adulthood, e no come with manual.

❓Have you ever canceled just to breathe?

゚

I get it - you’ve grown, you’ve healed, you’ve matured.But if you’re the one who’s always reaching out first…If they onl...
26/06/2025

I get it - you’ve grown, you’ve healed, you’ve matured.

But if you’re the one who’s always reaching out first…

If they only show up when they need something…

If you can’t even remember the last time they asked,

“How are you - really?”

Then maybe it’s not just life getting busy.

Maybe the friendship expired and you’re scared to admit it.

You sef, you try hold on - but for how long?

Be honest…
Is it time to let go?

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19/06/2025

Hmm...

He send you ₦100k. Just help you. No contract.But now he dey expect daily check-in, total attention, and basically Dey t...
19/06/2025

He send you ₦100k. Just help you. No contract.
But now he dey expect daily check-in, total attention, and basically Dey talk says you owe him your loyalty.

You didn’t ask. You didn’t promise anything.
But now he’s calling you “ungrateful.”

We say make we ask:

If a man gives you ₦100k, do you owe him anything?
Is it gratitude, loyalty… or just thank you and go?

Be honest o. No judgement.
Drop your verdict in the comments.

Sometimes, things go happen and you go pause… dey ask yourself, “I even get sense at all?”No wahala, this page na safe p...
18/06/2025

Sometimes, things go happen and you go pause… dey ask yourself, “I even get sense at all?”
No wahala, this page na safe place. Drop your gist, we go reason am together ☺️

Wetin you go do when love, family or friendship show you pepper?You dey swallow am for peace? You dey fight back? Or you...
18/06/2025

Wetin you go do when love, family or friendship show you pepper?
You dey swallow am for peace? You dey fight back? Or you just dey cry inside car?

Here, we talk about the moments that make us ask:
👉 “I be mumu abi na me mess up?”

This page is for:

The woman wey carry man matter for head

The guy wey dey buy shawarma for babe wey get 3 boyfriends

The friend wey always dey give, give, give… until empty

The mama wey wan do everything right but still dey judged

The person wey just wan rest, abeg!

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