24/03/2025
Dear Female Students before you move in keep in mind these 15 things:
1. You can become pregnant if you two are s*xually active. You usually forget to turn the pages of your books and turn back to grab other things. 🤰📖➡️🙈
2. You will be cooking all the time. Though this may save you and your boyfriend money, you indirectly do wife chores for a campus boyfriend. Achalugo, would your mother be proud of you? 🍳👩🍳🤦♀️
3. You could abort and you have a great likelihood of using substances that will affect your womb in the future. If matter sup, even "snake in the take it from behind" won't suffice. 🐍🤦♂️💊
4. You will likely develop low self-esteem if the boy is a control freak. He will isolate you from your friends and peers. When he breaks up with you, it will be like starting life all over again. 😞💔📉
5. You'll miss a lot of classes. You'll get dressed up for school, and he'll be saying you're beautiful in the dress. He'll hold it short up, press one or two, and you two will start out, "Stop that. I like it." 😏 But when carryover and bonus year come around, you'll be sobbing because you were whining. 🎓➡️😭📚
6. If he's a non-academic student who likes the heat of his room, gambling, and smoking stalls, you can be a caregiver, and it'll reflect. You fit become an old woman at 21 years old. Eiyaaa, lover girl! 😩👵
7. You can't plan your future. Your head will not be in the correct space to organize how you'd like your life to be. You may have a career opportunity where you can apply for an internship or a scholarship, and he will state, "So, you want to leave me here?" 😢🚀
8. All his friends who visit will know you. In case something happens tomorrow and you two break up, they will ensure their favorite brothers and friends stay away from you. They will get close to tap but won't go the whole way. 🚶♂️🚶♂️🙃
9. Get some shame! 🙈😂
10. When a man gets you hurt that young, it may be hard to heal emotionally. Things could go awry, and you could end up being a man-hater. It will extend to other parts of your life and make you who you don't want to be. 😡🚫
11. There is no shege under the sun that you will not see, and he may turn abusive. It is easy for young men to handle, especially if there is nothing much going on in their life for them to use that responsibility or control over. 🌞🔥😩
12. Your dreams may suffer. You may lose sight of your academic goals and aspirations step by step, jeopardizing your future. 📉🎓
13. You can find yourself relying excessively on him, which becomes more difficult to make personal choices. 🥴🧍♀️
14. In case the relationship does not work, the psychological and emotional effect might be devastating, compromising your studies and personal development. 😢📚
15. And lastly, you are worthy of so much more! 👏💖🎉
Spotwrite 🖋️✅
