23/07/2025
📌 Wednesday Marital Moments – Every Wednesday at 3:00 PM on Successdayo Media Concept
“The Silent Marriage Killer: LACK OF COMMUNICATION”
💍 Welcome to the FIRST edition of Wednesday Marital Moments! 💍
Today, let’s talk about a silent killer of many marriages… COMMUNICATION.
🤔 Have you noticed how small misunderstandings grow into big problems simply because couples don’t talk enough—or don’t talk the right way?
✅ Many couples stop expressing their feelings.
✅ They assume their partner should ‘just know.’
✅ They talk to outsiders more than they talk to each other.
But the truth is… a healthy marriage starts with healthy communication. ❤️
✅ What can couples do to improve communication?
1️⃣ LISTEN TO UNDERSTAND, not to reply:
Sometimes your partner does not need a solution—just a listening ear.
2️⃣ SCHEDULE“ talk times”
Life gets busy, but setting aside even 15 minutes daily to check in emotionally works wonders.
3️⃣ BE NAUGHTY, get used to sending naughty messages to your spouse
Marriages also need some spark. Learn to send naughty messages to your husband or wife, (it shouldn't be chuch flier or asalatu reminder). Tell him you will be waiting for him or her in the room, and, that you missed him/her. This will always prepare them for you and stir emotions.
4️⃣Be honest but gentle
Say what you feel, but avoid harsh words. Focus on the issue, not the person.
5️⃣ Ask before assuming
Don’t fill in the blanks with your fears—clarify what your partner really means.
6️⃣Seek help if needed
If talking feels impossible, consider counseling, or involve a trusted mentor.
👉 So here’s my question to you:
What’s the biggest communication challenge you’ve seen in other people's marriage, or experienced in your own marriage?
Drop your thoughts in the comments—let’s learn and grow together! 💕