16/08/2023
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I(name withheld) married to my husband (name withheld) 20 years ago traditionally. Am from Ughelli South and my husband is from Isoko North both in Delta State.
I came into my husband's house with my daughter Oghenetega of 5years old which the Father denied her pregnancy after having an affair of 3months with me secretly, my husband took the responsibility of training her and we agreed that she answers my husband's name as her surname since she has no other father that cares for her.
My bubby paid her fees till she graduated as an Estate Surveyor and now works in a bigger firm in Lagos earning big cash. Note;- after marriage, we all move from Delta to Lagos State.
Since I got married to my hubby, I have been on TTC for like 20years now. But 2years ago, I thought my daughter also made the same mistake l made with her biological father, when l realised she got pregnant and I advised her against abortion when she later have birth to my handsome looking grandson which my hubby and I so much loved that the boy looks like my hubby even as he is growing up.
Being that my daughter now live on her own good apartment with a very beautiful and expensive car bought for her by my hubby, she decided to registered her son (my grandson) in school using my hubby's name as her son's surname as a sign of appreciation of what my hubby her step-father has done for her in her life, that the father of her son also abandon her.
Fast forward a long story short, my daughter fell ill and was admitted in the hospital, my hubby who is always by her side in times of help like this, was out of the country, then, I have to enter her Almighty room which she has never allowed me to enter for some reasons best known to her because I had to take care of junior and take him to school before going to the hospital.
There and right there in her bedroom, I saw her court wedding pictures with my hubby with her son's pregnancy and so many other romantic pictures of them on her room wall and now the Doctor has confirmed her 3months pregnant again in the hospital for my hubby too.
Am confused, she is the only child I have (an Estate Surveyor) , she, my hubby and grandson loves me so much that l can't believe this level of betrayer if l was told.
Plssππππ I need your candid advice, matured mind only, because it's like am all alone in this wicked world now.
Should I call my hubby? Or
Should I wait till he comes back from his trip abroad? He is on three months business trip.
Should l abandon my only child in the hospital?
Should I leave the marriage for them? ππππππ
Note;- the car am driving is a gift from my daughter.
Is it an abomination to stay in the same marriage with my daughter?
I also found their registery marriage certificate and travelling document of my daughter and my hubby. Maybe they planned to leave my grandson with me and travel? I don't know.
πππ Plss help meπππ
What is your take on this?