24/05/2024
Inukwa
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Both my wife & I are dark in complexion but she gave birth to a light skin baby. I'm so disappointed & been in p@!n for the past 1yr since she gave birth.
I'm 39 yrs-old. Been married for over 2yrs now. I've done nothing but love my wife & even loved her more when she got pregnant but i was so shocked & disappointed when she gave birth on seing the baby having a fair complexion instead of dark.. we are both dark in complexion so how on earth did a fair baby come about, is what till date I haven't been able to understand. The child has non of my looks either though he looks exactly like he's mom....
For over 6 months, even though in so much p-@!n, I decided not to act or say anything but waited all these time coz i actually wanted to be sure & give my wife the benefits of the doubts to see if the baby's skin complexion will actually change. i understand most kids are born fair but within a space of 6 months they get their real complexion, but i waited & even added extra good 6 months, Hoping to disprove my suspicion. But this hasn't been the case, it's been over a year now & still thesame. Am disappointed, had so much faith & trust in this woman, showed her so much love but she went ahead to chtt on me with another man, got pregnant for him & even put it on me...
My mom advised me not to marry her but i ignored her words, went ahead & got married to her only for her to d!s grace me like this.. For over 6 months i haven't to-ched my wife neither do i eat her food nor even go close to her baby in order to send a signal to her, to give her an opportunity to come clean & tell me the truth herself & apologize to me but, she still acts innocent & cry almost everyday asking me "what's wrong", like she knows nothing. Truth is, I can't imagine myself waisting money & time being a father to another mans child.
So, in order to ease my p@!n, i started seing some els. We've been going on for over 6 months now. She's a good woman & I've deeply fallen in love with her, she's even carrying my baby as we speak. I told mom & she insisted i marry her immidiately, so we took some few uncles & we've already done the traditional marriage last week, even though, she's not aware that I'm married cos I've never made mention of it. Honestly, I've completely fallen out of love with my wife. The sight of her & her baby an- noys me so much. i love this new woman so much that i do not want to loose her.
Pls, i need your advice on what to do & how i should i go about this."
