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The ‘Perfect Wedding’ Left Us Emotionally DrainedEVERYTHING WAS STUNNING — except us.The ballroom was magical.The photos...
22/07/2025

The ‘Perfect Wedding’ Left Us Emotionally Drained

EVERYTHING WAS STUNNING — except us.

The ballroom was magical.
The photos were Pinterest-worthy.
The comments were full of .

But inside?

We were tired, disconnected, and frustrated.
We hadn’t spoken kindly in 3 days.
We were performing, not enjoying.

Why? Because we wanted the image, not the intimacy.

Now we know better.

We started investing in our connection more than our content.

And slowly, we became the real “couple goals” — without filters.

🔥 Don’t chase a perfect picture. Build a real partnership.

Andy Writes ✍️

Anderson E. Bassy Jr.

What No One Told Me About Getting MarriedTHE WEDDING INDUSTRY WILL TELL YOU: You need $25,000 to get married.You need a ...
21/07/2025

What No One Told Me About Getting Married

THE WEDDING INDUSTRY WILL TELL YOU:

You need $25,000 to get married.

You need a professional planner.
You need exotic centerpieces and customized napkins. 😅

But what you really need is:

Emotional intelligence

Shared values

A willingness to unlearn and grow

Commitment in the boring seasons

We fell in love on walks, not wine tastings.
We grew stronger during bills, not banquets.

The wedding is a story but the marriage is the journey.

And I’d choose the journey every single time.

Anderson E. Bassy Jr.

⚠️ STOP FOLLOWING THIS ADVICE! Science says ‘never go to bed angry’ is TOXIC. (Here’s why it backfires...)❌ THE MYTH: ...
18/07/2025

⚠️ STOP FOLLOWING THIS ADVICE!
Science says ‘never go to bed angry’ is TOXIC.
(Here’s why it backfires...)

❌ THE MYTH:
Always resolve fights before bed!

REALITY:
Forcing ‘resolution’ at 2 AM = exhausted brains + emotional flooding = WWIII.

🧠 BRAIN FACTS:
Stress shuts down logic (hello, amygdala!)
Sleep deprivation = 34% less empathy

Truth is, pushing for closure tired = more damage.

✨ THE FIX:
Sleep On It Protocol

STEP 1: PAUSE
I love you, but my brain is fried. Can we restart at 9 AM?’

STEP 2: CONNECT
Hug/kiss (NO silent treatment!)

STEP 3: SCHEDULE
Set a 24h calmer talk time.

💡 MAGIC HAPPENS WHEN YOU SLEEP:
Memories reorganize
Stress hormones drop
Perspective resets

80% of ‘huge fights’ shrink to solvable issues!
It’s not avoiding conflict it’s respecting biology.

👇 DEBATE TIME!

❓ Have you ever forced a ‘resolution’ and made it worse?

❓ Did ‘sleeping on it’ save your relationship?

⬇️ COMMENT BELOW:

GUILTY! 🙋‍♀️’ or ‘This is GENIUS! 💡

TAG your partner & SHARE if you’re trying this!

Anderson E. Bassy Jr.

I COULDN'T READ ALONE 😁😁😁The $30,000 Wedding That Nearly Broke UsAFTER THAT DAY, I KNEW SOMETHING HAD TO CHANGE.We spent...
18/07/2025

I COULDN'T READ ALONE 😁😁😁

The $30,000 Wedding That Nearly Broke Us

AFTER THAT DAY, I KNEW SOMETHING HAD TO CHANGE.

We spent $30,000 on our wedding.

And guess what? We started our marriage in debt… tired, anxious, and silently resentful.

The photographer was late.
The DJ messed up our song.
The cake was meh.
But the stress? Oh, that was perfect. 💀

If we could go back, we’d do it differently.

We’d invite fewer people.
We’d focus more on pre-marital counseling than the flower arrangements.
We’d spend more time talking about communication than color themes.

Marriage is not a one-day performance — it’s a lifetime partnership.
Don’t impress people who won’t even show up when things get hard.

Keep it small. Keep it meaningful. Keep it real.
And above all, invest in your home, not just your ceremony.

👉 If you're planning a wedding, remember this: “Start how you want to finish in peace, not pressure.”

Anderson E. Bassy Jr.
Shey you don hear am ?? 👂👂👀

⚖️ The 50/50 Relationship Myth Is Hurting Real MarriagesThey told us relationships should be 50/50… but real love doesn’...
16/07/2025

⚖️ The 50/50 Relationship Myth Is Hurting Real Marriages

They told us relationships should be 50/50… but real love doesn’t work like that.”

Let’s be honest.

Marriage isn’t about keeping score.
It’s not about splitting the bill or dividing chores equally all the time.
It’s about showing up even when life doesn’t feel fair.

Because sometimes...

🔹 One partner is battling depression and the other holds 90%.
🔹 One is drowning in work and the other picks up the slack at home.
🔹 One is sick and the other does it all, with love.

That’s not imbalance.
That’s real partnership.

Love isn’t math.
It’s grace.
It’s sacrifice.
It’s understanding that fairness isn't always equal, and that’s okay.

You don’t fall apart just because the scales aren’t balanced every single day.

You lean in. You cover. You carry each other.
Because you’re a team.

Now let me remind you!

If you're always counting what you give… you’re not loving, you're investing and love doesn’t work like stocks.

💬 Let’s Reflect:

Have you ever had to carry more than 50%?
Or has someone carried you when you had nothing left?

👇 Drop a 💯 if this hit home
🔁 Share this with someone who needs to unlearn the 50/50 myth
❤️ Save it to read again on hard days
📩 DM “TEAM” if you want a free couple's worksheet on redefining partnership

Anderson E. Bassy Jr.

💔 The Loneliness Inside Modern RelationshipsEver felt lonely in a relationship that looks perfect from the outside?In th...
16/07/2025

💔 The Loneliness Inside Modern Relationships

Ever felt lonely in a relationship that looks perfect from the outside?

In the age of digital connection, many couples in developed countries silently suffer emotional disconnection.

Careers, parenting, and social media often create emotional gaps.

Break down emotional neglect, lack of quality time, and communication burnout.

Include a quick self-checklist (e.g., "Do you feel heard? Do you talk more on text than in real life?").

✅ 5 Silent Killers of Emotional Intimacy

1. Living like roommates

2. Always on your phone

3. No “us” time

4. Avoiding hard conversations

5. Letting work steal your energy

Have you ever felt lonely in love?

Comment 💬 or DM ‘INTIMACY’ for a quick emotional reconnection guide.

Anderson E. Bassy Jr.

AFTER READING THIS, I FEEL ITS TIME TO DO THE RIGHT THING. 😁😁😁😁😁ITS TIME!!!!You can never gather enough money to get mar...
16/07/2025

AFTER READING THIS, I FEEL ITS TIME TO DO THE RIGHT THING. 😁😁😁😁😁

ITS TIME!!!!

You can never gather enough money to get married.

No matter how much you save, it will still feel like it’s not enough.
No matter how prepared you are, something will always seem imperfect on that wedding day.

If you’ve ever planned an event, you’ll understand that no event is perfect. So why stress yourself unnecessarily?

During our wedding, we let go of a lot of things that didn’t matter.

A vendor once told us the wedding gown was N100,000. My wife looked at her and asked, “You mean rent, right?”
We later got her wedding gown for about N33,000 and she looked amazing.

When it came to food, vendors gave us a bill of N800,000. I just laughed.
We called our aunties, bought rice, and they did the cooking joyfully.
And yes, the food was delicious.

Photographer quoted N200,000. We found someone who did the job for less than N20,000.
Simple. Clean. Decent.

The problem is, you worry too much, and that’s why you're scared to take the first step.

If you truly have what it takes to take care of a woman and build a home, focus more on that than the wedding day itself.

Fix a date.
Agree with your partner.
Talk to your parents.
And move forward.

Marriage is not about how grand the wedding day looks — it’s about how peaceful the home is after the celebration.

Do what is within your means and leave the rest.
Even if you wait five more years, it still won’t be perfect.
Perfection is a myth.

If you’re in a serious relationship and you both feel ready, go ahead. Set the date and watch God move.

I MOSES

🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔👇

Being Single Is Better Than Being Mismatched.A lot of marriages and relationships have gone down the drain because the p...
14/07/2025

Being Single Is Better Than Being Mismatched.

A lot of marriages and relationships have gone down the drain because the parties chose to settle because they don't have time.

Listen my dear!

😮 Loneliness is hard. But being with the wrong person is worse. Yes you heard me.

Don’t settle just because time is ticking or people are talking.

Remember people will always talk wether you settled earlier or late.

The right love takes patience and preparation.

So i advice you to 💍 Prepare yourself for the kind of love you won’t need to recover from.

📩 Follow for powerful reminders that protect your peace.

Anderson E. Bassy Jr.

The heart never truly sleeps, as it continues to beat and pump blood throughout the body, even when a person is asleep. ...
14/07/2025

The heart never truly sleeps, as it continues to beat and pump blood throughout the body, even when a person is asleep.

This ensures that the body's vital functions continue to operate, even during rest.

Just like the heart, love is always working behind the scenes, pumping life into our relationships, even when we're not actively thinking about them.

When we're asleep, our heart keeps beating for our loved ones, reminding us that true love is a 24/7 job.

In Marriage, Love is a Constant Beat

Just as the heart adapts to our needs, a strong marriage requires flexibility, resilience, and a willingness to beat as one.

Through life's ups and downs, a couple's love can become more synchronized, their hearts beating in harmony.

The Heart's Reminder: Nurture Your Relationship

- Communicate openly and honestly
- Show appreciation and gratitude
- Support each other's dreams and aspirations
- Keep the spark alive with surprise and affection

By nurturing our relationships like our hearts nurture our bodies, we can build strong, lasting bonds that bring joy and fulfillment to our lives.

Anderson E. Bassy Jr.

10/07/2025

A chaotic woman will cost you more than any business deal gone wrong.🤨🤨

10/07/2025

Marry when you can make decisions not when you're controlled by who feeds you 😊💡👂

The biggest rule in a relationship is no matter how mad you are at your partner, you do not go and seek someone else's a...
19/08/2024

The biggest rule in a relationship is no matter how mad you are at your partner, you do not go and seek someone else's attention. 📌💊

You stay there and make it right.

Because that's your person. If you can easily go to someone else, you do not love the person you are with. 🚫

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