17/04/2023
Sharp Mouths Beware!
A woman who nags and nags and who cannot keep quiet can not have her husband close her.
If you can't overlook many habits put up by men but you must complain and complain, your husband will stay out more, at least to reduce the frictions at home.
And when he's out he can easily be tempted to be doing what is not expected of him.
Many use to write me, "my husband is doing this and that, I'm not happy in my marriage"
Women! I want to tell you this, your happiness or joy must not depend on what your husband does or doesn't do! The Bible says the joy of the Lord is our strength!
Let your joy be in the Lord! When you give attention to a negative behaviour of your husband, you are tend to be sad always. And this may affect other areas of your life.
There is no man without a good side! As you pray for a change of attitude in your husband, stop complaining, focus on his good areas. Appreciate good things he does. Magnify it and let him know you appreciate it.
There is no man who receive an appreciation now and then who will not want to do more. You need a change, then let the change start from you until he notice this, your good can make him good says the word.
For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? 1 Cor 7:16a
Nagging won't change any man! But prayers and good reactions will do.
A couple that cannot overlook each others faults time to time cannot enjoy friendship. And without friendship a marriage is empty.
It is not every mistake your husband or wife commits that you must react to. For some, if the correction is so important, you can even allow days to pass over it, and when you are not even angry again then you can bring it up to correct in love. This will do more than correcting in anger and passing unnecessary negative comments that will hurt your partner and will still not allow the correction to be done properly.
Learn to watch your mouth. Most of the ill words spoken in anger was not even meant really. But it w
