27/06/2025
When odogwu says achalugolum I want to make you my wife. The question is what causes men to back out from their promise or what makes woman to lose confidence in her man assurance.
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📌Firstly, not every man go back on his word. So if the man didn’t end up marrying you, e get why.
📌Not every man know what he still needs.
📌Listening to advise and side talks.
📌The only thing that causes a woman to fall short on her man’s assurance is low self esteem.
when you begin to feel you are not enough, he needs better, and when you begin to compare and compel him.
Men, next time you want to make a promise, own up till the end.
My personal experience highlights the importance of commitment :
When I met my husband 17 years ago (2008), he said to me, 'I want to make you my wife.' It wasn’t all about friendship, but more of grooming, nurturing from my man, teaching me how to be his wife (I guess that's what courtship is).
On my part, I was learning and studying him at that time.
Despite facing criticisms , he still stood by me as my lover, friend and like the elder brother i have always wanted 😀😀😀.
I wasn’t perfect, I was still young, full of life and distractions.
My husband was patient, and he would always say to them give her 10years from today she will do better.
Today, promise made was honored, and I happy I made a good choice for myself and our children.
I love and appreciate my husband for being the man of his word.