12/28/2025
If you don’t have money as a man, at the very least, strive to be a man of integrity, be a vi rg in, honor yourself, and respect your future partner. Learn practical skills that add value: become a good cook, know how to clean, and take care of yourself and your surroundings. Invest in yourself in every way you can, even in int im acy, be attentive and skilled in be d.
You cannot afford to be broke, lazy, and incompetent in every area of life all at once. Life and marriage require contribution, effort, and personal growth. If you have nothing to offer. no skills, no discipline, no ambition, then what do you bring to a marriage? What can you give that improves the life of your partner or builds a stable family?
Marriage is not just about showing up; it’s about partnership, support, and value. If you cannot contribute in meaningful ways, then it’s time to work on yourself before you expect to be a suitable partner.
Note: This page does not support violence.