28/06/2026
MY BUNDLES OF JOY (PART 1)
When a woman gives birth to a child, there is a popular phrase we often hear:
"Our bundle of joy has arrived."
And truly, there is nothing quite like the joy that fills a mother's heart when she holds her baby for the first time.
Those tiny fingers.
That innocent face.
That sweet cry that announces, "I am here."
You look at that little child and your heart is filled with dreams.
You imagine the future.
You imagine the laughter.
You imagine the beautiful moments you will share together.
But as I looked at my own children, I began to ask myself a deeper question:
"Will they only be my bundles of joy while they are babies? Or will they still be my bundles of joy when they are grown?"
Because babies grow.
The tiny hands you hold today will one day become the hands of adults making their own decisions.
The little feet running around your house today will one day walk roads you cannot follow.
The voice that calls you "Mummy" today will one day belong to a man with his own home, his own responsibilities, and his own family.
And that thought makes me pause.
I am a mother of three amazing boys.
My first son is eight years old.
My second is three years old.
And my youngest is one year old.
Three precious gifts.
Three little lives entrusted into my care.
They are my bundles of joy.
But my prayer is bigger than just seeing them grow.
I don't only want to rejoice because they entered this world.
I want to rejoice because of the men they become.
I want them to bring me joy when they are married, when they have their own children, when they are building their careers, when they are living far away from me.
When my eyes can no longer see where they are...
When my hands can no longer reach out to help them...
When I can only hear their voices from a distance...
I want those voices to bring peace and joy to my heart.
I want to hear from them and smile.
I want to look at their lives and say, "Thank You, Lord."
But then I realized something...
Raising children who will remain a source of joy is not just about providing food, clothes, education, or comfort.
There is something far more important.
Something that determines the kind of foundation their lives will stand on.
And that is where my greatest responsibility as a mother begins...
TO BE CONTINUED...