24/02/2025
Who's to blame you or God?
There are some that wish oh I want to get married at a early age and there are some that says they need more time "Marriage is not what we rush into"
Marriage is not about age marriage is about emotional maturity, understanding, and responsibility.
Some might be so lucky to get married at early age and have a happy home through God understanding because they understand the tactics involved. Also fortunately for some too might got married at their late stage and still find it difficult to manage der home.
When we say study your partner before you marry it means know him well, know everything connected to him, study his character, values, be real friends together study his ego, know and love his family as yours. Is he the type that compares you to others before committing to marriage. How do u resolve differences and disagreements during courtship? Do you do it in a healthy and constructive manner? are you not always full of ur self? Is he a lazy type or hardworking person. Do you recognize one's own flaws and weaknesses, and being willing to apologise and grow.
Now do u think getting married out of wedlock can take away the shame whatsoever🤷♀️ I beseech you sisters don't believe that getting pregnant will guarantee a commitment from your partner.
So unfortunate that some sisters still believe "if I get pregnant for him he will marry me" but av you forgotten what the Bible says in Roman's 8vs6 "for to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. Remember that God is building you for a better future, and trust in his plan. For you to have peace in your home and in your mind put God first in all you do.
Always seek guidance and wisdom from God, and cultivating a strong spiritual foundation in all aspects of your relationship.
Blaming God is not the answer, but trusting in His plan. Have the knowledge that God is building you for a better future.
To those looking for the future partner the right person God have design for you will not pass you by in Jesus mighty name (Amen)
Shalom🔥