09/05/2026
EPISODE 502
STORY OF THE DAY
- Today on Tell Your Story With Quinesta
Good morning Quinesta. I am a mother of five, and my life has been a constant battle since my first daughter was born with autism. The nights are long and heavy. I stay awake to care for her, while also worrying about food for my other four children. I’ve hawked under the Calabar rain and sun, washed clothes for people till my hands cracked, and gone to bed hungry so my children could eat. There were times I couldn’t even afford antenatal care, and I wondered if my children saw me as their mother or just their only provider. My face looks older than my age. I am over 35 years, and every wrinkle tells of the nights I cried silently so my children wouldn’t hear me.
My husband didn’t make it any easier. He left me twice, first when I was pregnant with our third child, and again after our fourth. Both times he disappeared with nothing but promises, and I was left to carry the weight alone. No money, no calls, no support. He never even paid my dowry, just kept saying “I will do it, soon.” When he came back the third time, I was weak and tired, but I let him in for the sake of the children. This time he stayed. For a while, we became one family, even though we didn't have everything. He helped around, the children called him father again, and I allowed myself to believe that peace had finally come to our home.
But out of nowhere, he has turned around and told me to release our second daughter my teenage girl to go and work as a house help for another family. After all the years I suffered alone, after all the sacrifices I made to keep her in school and safe, he now wants to send her away to serve someone else’s home. It feels like a betrayal that cuts deeper than when he abandoned us before. I raised her through hunger and hardship so she wouldn’t have to live the same struggle I did. And now the man who never paid my dowry, who walked away twice, is deciding her future for me. I don’t know whether to fight him or to cry for the daughter I may lose.
Quinesta, please what do you advise?
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