25/09/2025
'This is my husband & his side chick. I'm currently going through depression cuz of these two. Look, Benita, I understand that you & my husband have been seeing each other for over 2 years now. I've consistently tried & done everything possible within my power to make you leave my husband, but I've failed.
You've insisted on seeing him & even sent me warning messages telling me that I can't do anything & that I'll kneel in public & beg you. My dear Benita, I'm tired of fi-y-tin you for my man; I'm so tired that I now give up. But please, I'm kneeling & begging you Benita , pls do anything that you want with my husband. But Please, do not take his love & responsibilities away from his kids.
I used to work as a nurse, but this man made me quit my job after our wedding & to become a full-time housewife, saying he'd give me the same amount I got from my job as my monthly allowance. For the sake of peace , love and respect that i have for my husband i did just as he said. I quited my job just to make him happy , despite that i was the sole bread winner of my family after my parents had struggled to see me through school. I did it , just to make the man tht i love, my husband happy so.he can love me more and let they be peace in my home.
For the past 7 years of marriage, he's been the one taking care of the bills, including my monthly allowance as promised. But it's been over 2 years now that he stopped doing anything for us. For over two years, I've been the one paying the house bills, our feeding, & the children's fees. Sometimes my husband stays for months without coming home or even asking about his own children.
I'm in so much debt as we speak & have virtually become a street beggar just so my children can at least eat. I would have left this marriage long ago, but I can't cuz of my children. I'm still here cuz of my kids. I'm currently on HBP medication, & I'm going through depression cuz of this lady.
Please, I need your advice. 😭😭😭
