22/06/2025
"Marry this girl at your own risk, she's a single mom of two. My fellow brothers, if you want peace of mind in a relationship, Pls!! steer clear of any single mom as a whole.
Speaking from the terrible experience I've had with this lady, I've been there & I'm advising you as a brother that cares..
I met this girl 2022; a single mom of twins, 2 daughters age 3, from a previous relationship which she told me was a toxic one. Well, I actually didn't mind as long as the children where not around, then those kids were living with their grandmother back in the village while she worked in town as a nurse.
We dated for 8 months then & she got pregnant for me though we didn't plan for it to happen.. Unfortunately, her mother passed when she was 7 months pregnant with my child & her kids relocated to town.
This was the most annoying moments of my life bcuz, I've never wanted to hv anything to do with her kids. I tried to act like it was ok but i couldn't keep up.
I had already made it clear to her i didn't want her kids around when she once brought up the idea the time she was 2 months pregnant when she told me she was thinking of going to the village to take her children. But i refused & gave a clear warning, stating that; i do not want to have anything at all to do with another man's children.
So when the kids relocated back from the village to the city after their grandma's funeral. I advised her to take the kids back to their father, who is alive & healthy, but she refused. Her excuse being that he had rejected her pregnancy & she couldn't let her daughters stay with him & his new wife. I didn't push the issue, i let it slight since i believed it was baby hormones disturbing her from reasoning well since she was pregnant
However, a year after she gave birth, I felt disrespected as she continued to insist on keeping the children despite my warnings and insistence that she take those kids to their father coz i want nothing to do with another man's babies. Infact, After numerous arguments, I ended the relationship, coz never can it be me, being a father to another man's children when i can have mine.
To cut the long story Short, i got married last year. YES I GOT MARRIED TO AN OBEDIENT AND RESPECTFUL WIFE THAT LISTEN & DOES EXACTLY AS I TELL HER.
I don't have kids yet with my wife but, I'm asking to take my child from this lady but she wouldn't hand my daughter over to me cuz her plans is to be using me to feed her other 2 children, She wants to be using me to support her other 2 kids which are not in anyway related to me.
It's honestly annoying & frustrating to be sending money & buy things for my daughter, knowing she'll share them with her other kids.
I just regret the day I met her. My mind was deceived into thinking I was in love. Since then, I've had no peace of mind. I can't be financing my child's build from my sweat and also involving another mans kids that aren't mine its not done. If she wants to feed her children with my sweat it's not going to work for her. Never!
Quinta, if you think you can use me to feed your children, think again. And trust me, I won't stop xpozìn you until you hand over my daughter. I won't be taken advantage of, it can never be me, You better think of another way to feed & support your children bcoz I'm Smarter than you think, if you think you can use me think again!
Pls help me xpœz this girl'
- Rêêpoztêd
