12/03/2025
My husband showed me a video of a man who said his greatest regret was getting married at 40.
He said if he knew better, he would have gotten married early. His advice to every young man is to marry at most by 30.
If you ask bro Timo why he's still single, you'll hear 'I don't have money yet', even though he has been courting Amaka for four years.
Dear bro Timo, you don't need millions in your bank account to get married.
What you need is a stable source of income that can feed you, your wife and a child. Start with that.
Because this billionaire that you're waiting to become before marrying Amaka, what if it doesn't happen anytime soon?
Or you want to be changing diapers at 50?
Instead of waiting until you clock 40, marry a woman who believes in you and is WILLING to build (not suffer) with you.
Amaka, it is your turn.
If a man is using 'I'm not financially buoyant' to tie you down, loose yourself and move on.
I remember a sister who courted a brother for 5 years and the brother kept saying he wasn't financially ready to get married.
After 5 years?
The sister was nearly 35 at the time, she had to end the poor relationship and moved on with her life.
See, no one has it all. Marriage is a journey of growth, not an hindrance to achieving your goals. You can marry and still make all the money you want to make.
Tina, start talking about marriage if you're in a serious relationship. And most importantly, don't marry a lazy man and don't be lazy too.
