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12/06/2026

Celebrating my 2nd year on Facebook. Thank you for your continuing support. I could never have made it without you. 🙏🤗🎉

Once it’s 4:00 PM on Sunday, the atmosphere starts smelling like Monday morning fuel scarcity and office meetings. Can w...
10/05/2026

Once it’s 4:00 PM on Sunday, the atmosphere starts smelling like Monday morning fuel scarcity and office meetings. Can we just skip to Friday? I’m not mentally prepared for 'As per my last email.' 😫😭”

10/05/2026

If na papa Monica, Umunna dare not give them a marriage list without the consent of her father, that's why you see deadbeat father's reaping where they did not sow,

04/05/2026

If my leg enters china, I fit sell their land join, loyalty kee for this nija economy Una Neva start

Let’s drop the PR talk.This ABSUTH appointment is not about healthcare.It’s about power.Dr. Alex Otti didn’t just appoin...
23/04/2026

Let’s drop the PR talk.

This ABSUTH appointment is not about healthcare.

It’s about power.

Dr. Alex Otti didn’t just appoint someone.

He stepped into the personal and political space of
Hon. Benjamin Kalu.

And you think that’s random?

Let’s be honest for once:

Is this an appointment…
or a calculated attempt to weaken a rising opponent without a direct fight?

Was Ben consulted, is the wife aware before now—

Hold on: is the people being played

or was this a move designed to put him in a corner?

Because now he has two choices:

Stay quiet → look politically compromised.
Fight back → look ungrateful, like he’s rejecting a “friendly hand.”

or wait a minute,how about if this brings a dispute between him and his wife 🤔

Please don't tell me their contest has nothing to do with their wives, because it heavily does more than what the eyes can see

Either way…

He loses something.

That’s not governance.

That’s control.

And while this silent chess game is playing out,
we’re distracted—arguing qualifications, defending sides…

But missing the real issue:

When did hospitals become tools for political positioning?

Let’s cut deeper:

If this appointment fails, who pays the price?
Not the politicians.

The people.

The patients.

The system.

Because this is how it always happens:

Power moves are made at the top.
Consequences are felt at the bottom.

So forget party. Forget loyalty.

Answer this without bias:

Is this leadership…
or just a more sophisticated form of manipulation?

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Some of you are not tired because life is hard…You’re tired because you keep fighting what already happened.That thing y...
15/04/2026

Some of you are not tired because life is hard…
You’re tired because you keep fighting what already happened.

That thing you’re replaying in your head?
It’s done.

That version of life you expected?
It didn’t go that way.

That person you wish acted differently?
They didn’t.

This is where RADICAL ACCEPTANCE comes in.

Not pretending it’s okay.
Not forcing yourself to like it.
But choosing to say:
“This is the reality. Now let me move.”

Because the truth is —
You can’t build a better life while arguing with the current one.

Acceptance doesn’t mean you’re weak.
It means you’re done wasting energy on what you can’t change.

And that’s where your power starts.

So ask yourself today:
What am I still resisting… that I need to accept?

15/04/2026

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Azuka Daniel, John Idemudia Okpugie, Alawi Alawi

13/04/2026

A very beautiful good morning and happy New week to you.

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Frank Irhabor, Balogun Idowu, Gertie Vidot, Adeleke Rahmo...
08/04/2026

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Frank Irhabor, Balogun Idowu, Gertie Vidot, Adeleke Rahmon Olamilekan, Mickard Thompson, Elroy Jno Baptiste, Thabiso Tman Malomane, Onimusosoro Onafuwa, Abubacare Jalloh, Doklo Arafat, Simbarashe Tawodzera, Nurtingen Bass, Saliya Kumara, Chibueze Fadiy Fadiy, Sam Moyana, Xolani Mashiya, James Mwalili, Petit Barry, Bill Sippi, Wilvens Philius, Kwabena Danso, Surash Rajput, Hamed Bello, Alfredy Dickson, Abdully Omary, Lawan Haruna, Ifagbenga Apena, Young Billioney Jelome, Jameel Khan, Artwell Jnr Zhou, Abeey Alubarika, Gmndè Seydou, Isatu Conteh, Saidou Idrissa, Oscar Majenzi Oxcar, Muritala Oiaide, Mathew Nyuah, Emmanuel Latayo, Abdullah Khan, Paul Omeduta, Papy Ilnga, Khalil Diop, Boss Txapata Watinhoca, Ulysse Jiradin, Janet D Kaba, Lucky Orist, Abudoni Biyangosha, Goha Mwinyi, Nestor Tedlos Vlog, Joseph Masawe

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