10/11/2024
SINGLES WE NEED TO TALK...
I notice the current pressure on ground to get into a relationship. It seemed as though this year was specifically set aside to pepper the singles.
So many marriages, and the married has even sworn that the singles go see, which we are already seeing 😂
Now to what I want to talk about...
Love is beautiful!
Infact Marriage is so beautiful, it's beautiful when done with the right person, through the right means and AT THE RIGHT TIME!
There's something I need you to understand.
Marriage is not all about the emotions and romantic activities, lovey dovey things you see couples post online. It's way way way beyond that.
Wait, what were you thinking, that they cuddle and kiss and have love times 24/7?
Ok maybe marriage is too big, let's talk about relationships. What do you think a PURPOSEFUL relationship was all about?
Late night calls and romantic talks, Hangouts, date nights or maybe the gifts? No nahh
You see, couples don't ever post when they have misunderstandings or fights. Even if they do, it must have been when they've quarrelled and their partners made it up to them.
You don't expect to get married and just be taking pictures, making videos, hanging out. There are other things like PURPOSE FULFILLMENT!
The brethren in church and around are not helping matters too, they'll want to use, "When will you marry!?" to wound singles 😂😂
Whilst I sincerely celebrate our married brethren in a healthy relationship, I still advice the singles that wants to step into a relationship due to pressure, PLEASE DON'T!
Don't run ahead of God because you are looking for someone to satisfy your rushing hormones. The right things are most beautiful when done at the right time.
Now is the time you need to build capacity, build your mind, learn and un-learn. Heal from hurts and traumas. LET GOD TEACH YOU!
As the married brethren are sharing their experiences, LEARN FROM IT and don't be pressured by it!
Can I quickly add this...
FOR YOU TO LOVE EFFORTLESSLY, YOU'LL HAVE TO LEARN TO DIE!
Is, '...and the two shall become one', a joke to you?
That's a synchronization process, and for that to take place, some things has to be completely taken away.
See, for you to sustain a good relationship and a great marriage, THERE'S SO MUCH TO LEARN.
Now is the time to DISCOVER YOURSELF, YOUR PURPOSE, LOVE YOURSELF!!
You don't wake up and wish it happens, you prepare for it and pray into it.
GOD MUST BE INVOLVED, HE IS VERY INTERESTED IN GODLY MARRIAGES.
YOU'LL FALL IN LOVE WITH THE RIGHT PERSON AT THE RIGHT TIME, AND YOU'LL BE SO HAPPY YOU DID, YOUR MARRIAGE WILL THRIVE!
So can you help me tap that single sister and brother under pressure, tell them, EYES ON JESUS,MIND ON THE GOAL!
©️ Theophila Chinaemerem Edeh