31/05/2026
My pregnant girlfriend has been lying about her age for our entire relationship. Is there any way for me to trust her again?
My girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. When we met, I was 30 and she said she was 25. I'm 31 now, and she's been pretending to be 26 for about 4 months. We literally celebrated what she said was her 26th birthday and she referred to it as her 26th birthday.
She's 10 weeks pregnant, but she found out a month ago. She only told me about it not even 3 weeks ago because she was supposedly nervous about my reaction. She was on birth control, whatever the ring is that is inserted. I know she's being truthful about that because I've seen it and it's even come out of her by accident before.
I'm unsure about us having a kid right now. We've been together a year and we don't even live together. She spends most of her time at my place but she doesn't actually live here. I guess I also took the risk by not using condoms, but I've been in other relationships where we've just relied on birth control and it was fine. I do use condoms, it's just that after we'd been together a while we decided we were comfortable enough to just use the birth control. I'm nervous about the idea of us having a baby and I told her I wasn't sure a relationship of a year is really the ideal stable thing to be bringing a baby into, and she's been saying she knows but she just doesn't think she can't not have it and she cries and makes me feel bad. I'm not trying to leave this all on her and I will take responsibility, that's not really what this is about.
She usually talks on the phone on speaker phone. She walks around holding her phone with it on speaker like they do on all the reality shows so you can hear everything being said. I find it really annoying. I don't want to listen to her full conversations she has with people. She was talking to her mom and sort of stressing about being pregnant and her mom said I can't believe you're going to have a b
