Chidera Abel

Chidera Abel Script Writer
Ada Igbo
A Girl Mum🇳🇬🇬🇭
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Akara (kosai) and moimoi (alele) are some of the best foods the Yoruba people have given to Nigeria and Africa as a whol...
24/09/2025

Akara (kosai) and moimoi (alele) are some of the best foods the Yoruba people have given to Nigeria and Africa as a whole. The argument about where they came from should end already. I never once thought they were Igbo foods. I actually used to believe they were Hausa, especially kosai, since I lived part of my life in the North. But after doing some research, I found out they are Yoruba. Akara fried in palm oil also carries an important cultural meaning for them.

Where is the lie. When a man says he wants peace, or that you don’t give him peace, just know he is the problem. Your re...
22/09/2025

Where is the lie. When a man says he wants peace, or that you don’t give him peace, just know he is the problem. Your reaction to his abvse is what he considers lack of peace

Which of these telenovelas did you watch from the beginning to the end without missing an episode
21/09/2025

Which of these telenovelas did you watch from the beginning to the end without missing an episode

Nothing wey crayfish never see for Igbo people hand.
21/09/2025

Nothing wey crayfish never see for Igbo people hand.

This isn’t even jokes. One of my uncles was like this. He locked food in his bedroom. If the wife wants to cook, he will...
20/09/2025

This isn’t even jokes. One of my uncles was like this. He locked food in his bedroom. If the wife wants to cook, he will measure out rice or beans or whatever he wants them to cook for that day. He even measure yam 😂

The only person I fully trust to care for my daughter is her father. I don’t feel comfortable leaving her with anyone el...
20/09/2025

The only person I fully trust to care for my daughter is her father. I don’t feel comfortable leaving her with anyone else , not relatives, not friends, not even people close to me. When others carry her, I stay nearby and watch until I take her back. If I’m in a hurry, I’ll say so, but even then, my eyes never leave her.

This comes from my childhood experiences. When I was 4 or 5 years old, around the time of my father’s burial, someone I should have been able to trust hurt me. That person thought I wouldn’t remember, but I do. I was having a conversation with this person a few days ago, and i deliberately brought up events that took place during the burial, he was shocked that i could remember things that happened when i was so small. That was me trying to let him know that i know what he did to me. Sadly, this person is a family member.

when I was around eight, it happened again this time from someone outside the family, a woman, but still very trusted. She was even the one who gave me my baptismal name, Maureen when i was 9 month old. My baptismal mother. Because of these i lost trust in leaving my child in the care of others.

My mother had trusted those people, but they failed her trust. That’s why I’ve made up my mind: until my daughter is old enough to speak clearly, defend herself, and tell me what happens when I’m not there, I won’t leave her with anyone else. It’s difficult sometimes to do everything alone, but it’s worth it. Other than her father, no one will watch her. Times are hard, and too many people , men and women alike, take advantage of those who are vulnerable. I will do everything I can to make sure my daughter is safe.

Caring for her this way has made her very attached to me. She’s so dependent that she doesn’t even let other people touch her , but I still prefer this to leaving her with others. With time, I believe she will adjust, but I want that to happen only when she’s able to freely talk to me and tell me what’s going on.

I don’t plan to start her in school until she’s about 5 years old. Until then, I’ll homeschool her, and she’ll continue at home until she’s about 5. By then, I trust she’ll be able to tell me certain things and express herself

Wo! How time flies
19/09/2025

Wo! How time flies

This man asked married men what their biggest regret in marriage was.The answers are shocking and worth reading. these c...
19/09/2025

This man asked married men what their biggest regret in marriage was.
The answers are shocking and worth reading. these comments are healing 😊😆

I promised myself that I wouldn’t let Skylar have any screen time until she turned one. My reason was simple: I didn’t w...
19/09/2025

I promised myself that I wouldn’t let Skylar have any screen time until she turned one. My reason was simple: I didn’t want her to get addicted to screens or television, to the point where it would be hard to pull her away or require yelling just to get her to do other activities. What children get used to between ages one and five often shapes their habits as they grow, and breaking those habits later can be a real struggle.

She’s almost ten months old now, and I’m proud to say I kept that promise. I started reading to her when she was just three months old. I bought her children’s books, and we filled our days with other activities. I even made schedules for naps, playtime, meals, and reading. Sometimes we read together up to three times a day. I noticed early on that she loved colorful books. Now, instead of me swiping through pages for her, she flips through the books herself, looking at the pictures. Many times, she’s the one pulling my hand, asking me to read.

I’m really glad I made that decision and stayed consistent with it. Today, if I place my phone and a book in front of her and ask her to choose, she’ll always pick the book. Even if I give her a toy and a book, she’ll still choose the book. That’s one part of her life where I feel I’ve truly succeeded as a parent.
In this picture Shes 4 month old. You needed to see how Shes already interested in book at this age 🤭🤣

You see this thing called body shaming, I suffered it oh. When I was overweight, I really went through a lot. People mad...
18/09/2025

You see this thing called body shaming, I suffered it oh.

When I was overweight, I really went through a lot. People made fun of me endlessly. Someone once told my younger sister that I looked like a pig. A guy I rejected even said he was never serious about dating me, because, according to him, no one would want to be with a “pig.”

Another time, I went on a date and ran into an old high school friend at the restaurant. She greeted me, then loudly asked why I was wearing big clothes since I was already very fat. Right there in front of my date, she tugged at my shirt and asked if I didn’t look in the mirror before coming out because I looked awful. I almost cried. After she left, my date tried to comfort me, but he never called me again.

I became so insecure that anytime people laughed around me, I thought they were laughing at me. What nobody knew was that I was struggling with PCOS. People don’t realize how harmful body shaming is, you never know the health battles someone might be facing. I was depressed and stayed indoors most of the time.

Then one day, I decided to exercise. I skipped rope and danced in my room, and it felt so good that I kept doing it every morning and evening. I started dieting too. At some point, I even did a 5-day water fast, and the change was unbelievable. After staying indoors for more than two months, I finally stepped out to buy groceries, and everyone kept asking if I was sick because of how much weight I had lost. My old clothes no longer fit, I needed belts to hold my trousers.

For the first time in a long while, I felt healthy and alive. I changed my wardrobe and started slaying with confidence. 😀

Has it gotten to this point?
18/09/2025

Has it gotten to this point?

I never understood the functions of this buttons on my remote. Some should educate me 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️
17/09/2025

I never understood the functions of this buttons on my remote. Some should educate me 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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