
17/07/2024
Good day sir Shine, please post for me 🙏🙏
please I have a complaint and I really need help
Am married with 3kids but ever since I entered this marriage I have never boasted of 1k in my account
My husband is making this marriagge unbearable for me.i will do all the house chores cook and take care of the kids yet he isn't seeing my efforts
He complains if I fail to do any little chore
Recently I met a girl in his shop discussing with him I got angry but didn't confront him immediately so after some days I did cos am bothered he said she is a girl that comes to him for advice that he don't like fair girls that they have nothing to do with each other
I kept my calm but yet my heart refused to accept her
So yesterday I went to his shop and behold the girl was there again and the funny part is that she dress to kill whenever she comes to this man's shop
Immediately I saw her my mood changed
This Man is tearing my heart apart
I learnt work since 3years yet he didn't give me money to start up my own
Anything I confront him about the wrong he did he will be reminding me that he married me out of pity
The one that pained me most is that his kid brother said that since I entered their house I never add a single flesh that I look like bonga fish I believe him because I don't eat well I developed ulcer ever since I entered this marriage
This Man keeps 1000 naira for me and the kids every day sometimes 1500
But he will eat food worth more than 3k in the shop
He buys clothes often for himself he looks fresh but me am just 30 but I look 35
Am seriously loosing my sanity
I don't know what to think anymore
I need to do something to raise money
PleaseI need advice cos as it stands now I want to che*t on him lemme know if I can get money and take care of my self and the kids
I know sui..cide is not an option please help 😭😭
I'm conffused and don't know what to do anymore 😴