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22/09/2024

HE NEEDS OUR ADVICE

My mother-in-law is pregnant and I want to cut her off.
I married my wife when she was 19 and I was 31. I married for love. She was a perfect partner for me. She had 4 siblings when we married, one of which was in primary school. We have been married for six years and within those years, her mother gave birth to another child. Infact, after she left our house for Omugwo, she took in for their 6th born.

Things have not been as easy as before, the money I give my wife for her family upkeep is twice the amount I give to my own family. They are struggling. The matter has caused quarrels between my wife and me. Sometimes, she will ask me for money for school fees and share it in two to send to her mother and father. This thing caused a big quarrel between us because I'm struggling for our own two children.

Then heard that my mother-in-law was sick. After plenty of lies and hiding, I heard she is 5 weeks pregnant. Again. At the age of 46. I don't understand why or how. All I know is that I can't let her keep giving birth to children for me to take care of. I have given my wife an ultimatum that I am done with taking care of her family. I have to prioritize my own. She said her father does not support her mother financially and has been begging me because her mother does not know where to get a safe abortion. So because of that, I should go and steal to take care of both families? I told her to ask her mother to try harder to find a solution to that pregnancy now that it is early, now she is angry with me.

This matter is threatening to end my family and my happiness. What would you advise me to do?

25/11/2023

28/09/2023

LAUTECH mourns students who died in a crash

Acting Vice-Chancellor of the Ladoke Akintola University of Technology, Ogbomoso, Professor Razaq Olatunde Rom Kalilu, has called on members of the University community to pray for God's protection as we go deeper into the ember months.

He spoke against the background of an auto crash involving some final year students of the Institution, who were returning from a trip to Osun State, where they had being part of self organized excursion.

The students were mainly from the accounting Department of the University and were reported to have traveled in two vehicles.

Professor Kalilu while mourning the passage of two of the students and driver of the bus commiserated with parents of the dead ones among them and prayed that God grants those surviving them the fortitude to bear the loss.

He also prayed for divine healing for those still receiving medical attention from the various hospitals.

21/09/2023

The nurse who treated Mohbad on the day he died has been arrested — Actress Iyabo Ojo

15/09/2023

It was exactly 25 years ago that late Dr,Gen Olayioye Lawrence Fatunbi left this sinful world.The entire family is remembering u,May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

06/09/2023

Breaking: Missing Fuoye student found dead in a shallow grave.

Atanda Modupe Deborah a Student of nursing department stream A, Faculty of basic medical science in FUOYE was reported missing in early September .

According to the report, She was last seen infront of pharmacy twin hall inside Federal University Oye Ekiti on the 4th of September 2023.

Deborah who reportedly went out to read but later found her lifeless body today at Oye Ekiti with injuries on her head also her eyes were allegedly plucked out.💔💔

More details later…..

15/08/2022

Matter Arising! Read and drop an advice for her if you have any...

I'm 28 yrs old, my parents died when I was 14yrs old. I dropped out of school because no one could afford to pay my fees.
I met a guy when I was 17yrs old and he sent me back to school. He sold fruits on the streets so that he could pay my school fees. He later got a job as a truck driver and sent me to university.
I'm now working as a lawyer. My problem is that I feel I can't continue with this relationship because this guy is not the type of man I would like to marry! !!!!

How best can I tell him that he is not my type without hurting his feelings?

I'm grateful he sent me to school but I can't be in a relationship with him anymore!

I want somebody in my class, not a truck driver! !!

🙋‍♂️What's your take on this?

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