20/02/2024
Topic: Secret Codes In Marriage.
Anchor Text: Genesis 2:20-25, Amos 3:3
Marriage is God's Master Plan from the beginning. The Word of God is the perfect HANDBOOK for all marital questions.
Code is needed for activation, for access, to recharge account among others.
But Secret Codes In Marriage are to Spice Up our marriage.
What are these Secret Codes for A lasting Marriage?
1. Love and Submission Code- Ephesians 5:22, 25, 28-29, 33b
-Love is deep and stronger as death.
-Love goes beyond red roses and knees bent.
-Love is real.
-Men were admonished to love
- Submission is key for every woman in other to live blissfully in her home.
-"No gree for anybody is Nigeria_2024 slogan" but if you apply that to your home, that house will explode and divorce or separation may be inevitable.
Please be guided.
2. Understanding Code- 1 Pet 3:7
This is very important in order to enjoy marital bliss.1 Pet 3:7.
You need to understand:
-Attitudes and emotions of your spouse
-Background and upbringing of your spouse
-Weakness and Strength of your spouse
-Times and seasons (a case study of Nigeria economy)
-Roles of each members of the extended family (Father, Mother, Children, In-laws)
3. Communication Code- Colo 4:6
Our Individual perception differs. For instance, using English as a medium of communication may not really express details of feelings unlike when mother tongue is used.
-Your spouse may be the type that process information, if you are in that category, please pick your words with wisdom.
a) Communication builds trust
b) It eliminates assumption
Note: Don't keep secret from your spouse, don't withold information from your spouse because the end result may be catastrophic.
4. Character Code- Songs of Solomon 8:8-10, 1 Pet 3:6, 1 Pet 3:8, Proverbs 31:10-31
-To win your spouse over, you need excellent character
-Your character should be spiced up with high level of Emotional Intelligence.
-Know how to react, don't be rash or touchy.
©Damilola Mercy AGBAGIA
