
27/06/2025
Our Japa Experience: A Nigerian Family’s UK Journey
Have you ever dreamed of leaving everything behind to start a new life abroad?
For many Nigerians, “japa” is the dream—but is it really as easy or rosy as it looks on Instagram?
Join us on a real-life journey as we share the raw, unfiltered story of one Nigerian family who sold their house, quit their jobs, and took a leap of faith to the United Kingdom.
From the excitement of a visa approval to the culture shock of cold mornings and the struggle to find a job, this series will show you the highs and the lows of relocating to a new country.
Ready? Let’s begin.
EPISODE 1: The Dream That Changed Everything
Have you ever stared at your ceiling at 2 a.m., wondering if there’s more to life than the daily hustle? That was me—a regular Nigerian guy, living in Lagos, married with two kids, and tired of the “suffer head” routine.
My wife, Amaka, and I would talk about japa whenever the power went out or the cost of garri doubled overnight. At first, it was just a joke—something to laugh about when things got tough. But as the months passed and opportunities seemed to shrink, the idea grew louder.
One evening, after another long day at work (with barely enough pay to see us through the month), Amaka asked, “What if we really tried? What if we left everything and started again in the UK?”
I laughed. I told her, “It’s not that easy. Do you know how many people are struggling just to get a visa? People sell land, cars—some even lose everything and still don’t make it. How do we do it with two kids?”
But that question stuck in my mind. The more I tried to ignore it, the more restless I became. At night, I would lie awake, thinking about a future where my children didn’t have to grow up with constant “no light,” “no water,” and the daily struggle to survive.
Days turned into weeks. We began researching the study route: tuition fees, maintenance funds, the endless documents, the IELTS exams. The more we found out, the scarier it got. The price tag alone was enough to give anyone hypertension!
Then came the toughest decision—we had to sell our house. The only home our kids had ever known. I was scared, Amaka was scared, but we both knew that if we didn’t try, we might regret it forever.
Quitting my job was another mountain. My boss called me “mad.” Friends said we would suffer. My mother almost cried when I told her. But we stood our ground. We sold the house, resigned from our jobs, and decided to give our dream a shot.
Was it the right decision? Only time would tell. But as we packed up our lives into suitcases, I felt a strange mix of fear and hope.
This was the beginning of our japa experience—a leap into the unknown.
What’s the craziest risk you’ve ever taken for your family?
Would you ever sell everything and start again in a foreign land?
Drop your thoughts in the comments!
Follow 9jaHustler for Episode 2—our visa application battle and the long nights of waiting. You don’t want to miss it!