25/09/2025
Read and advise without insults please
Good afternoon, Ma. Please, I'm writing you with so much pain in my heart. I need your advice. My husband is 34years, i am 25 yeads old. My marriage is 10 months old, and I had an issue with my husband. He's still talking with his ex, which is my concern, and we quarreled because he found out I screenshotted their chats and sent to my sister. He took my phone from me and formatted my phone entirely, deleting all the apps on my phone. Threw my phone on the floor and screen shattered. And he also put his hands on me. This caused a serious quarrel between us, and i had to involve my father, my mum is late . It got to the point where my dad called his dad and they came to our house for settlement. During the discussion, he lied about me, and I had to counter what he said. Then, he started warning me and pointing fingers at me. Warning me in front of his dad and my dad. My dad got angry and asked him whether he was sick in the head for warning me in front of him in such a rude manner. My dad said to him, If this is what you do inside the house, he won't waste time taking me his daughter along with him. My father inlaw warned my husband not to try that ever again, even in front of him or while we are inside the house alone. He (my husband) seems to have taken it to heart, and since my dad and father inlaw left two weeks ago, we haven't spoken to each other. Even when I greet him, he doesn't talk to me, I cook and eat alone. He feels my father warned him in front of me, which he considered disrespectful, and he said my father has changed his mind about the marriage because of what happened. I've been on my own and feel too lonely about it. I'm even considering going back home because our both parents don't know about this new development. He packed into the guest room since after that day, I now sleep alone only me. I am tired. Please, what should I do?
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