20/08/2026
“HUSBAND IS USELESS”…👀
When I first saw this title, I laughed. 😂
Then I thought about it again. Then Biology entered the matter.
Because my dear people, humans are not born knowing how to be good husbands, good wives, good parents or even good human beings.
Instead, we learn, observe, imitate and adapt.
The human brain is remarkably plastic. Our experiences, environment, relationships and repeated behaviours can shape the way we think and behave.
So sometimes, the real tragedy isn't that someone was “useless.”
It is that a person had opportunities to learn, grow, change and become better… and chose not to.
And that part isn't funny anymore.
Because behind some of the jokes about “useless husbands” are women who have cried quietly, children who have watched silently, and homes where one person has been carrying what two people were supposed to carry.
So yes, laugh at the title. But don't miss the Biology hiding underneath the conversation, which is that people can change. And when they refuse to?
The consequences don't stop with them.
Now tell me honestly: do you believe people genuinely change, or do they simply become better at hiding who they are? 👇🏽
P.S: Do you really think that Husband is useless? 🤔
I am Teacher Scholastica, and sometimes Biology teaches us that the most important changes are not the ones we see on the outside, but the ones happening inside.❤️