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A. L. Wakevyon, Jalingo (2026)

13/08/2026

When my husband and I have one of those couple fights, I can be so upset, I’m talking very angry like no be this man I profess love to everyday?

But moments later, when the dust finally settles, we somehow find ourselves laughing about it and making jokes again.

It made me realize something, at that very moment when I was angry, the anger was only a facade. And like every facade, eventually, the real feelings announce themselves again.

Fights are normal.
Disagreements are normal too.

After all, we are two different people trying to build one life together. We may disagree, but the goal should always be to find our way back to understanding.

“Can two walk together, unless they are agreed?”

Funny enough, my Husband and I have shared almost the same experiences University, NYSC, and even Work in the same department yet we come from different backgrounds and cultures. We have different perspectives, different preferences, and sometimes, completely different ways of seeing things.

So, disagreements are inevitable.
But I’ve come to realize that disagreements also reveal us to each other.
They reveal our likes and dislikes.
Our views and preferences.
Our strengths and weaknesses.
Even our limitations.

And sometimes, those moments teach you things about your partner that you may never discover when everything is going smoothly.

So, if you ask me, how is married life? ...
I would say Marriage is really beautiful.
One moment, you’re upset with your partner.
The next moment, you’re laughing together.
One moment, you’re wondering, “Why is this man like this?” 😂
The next moment, you’re looking at him thinking, “This is my person.” ❤️

Marriage is one of the places where your most vulnerable self comes out.
You learn to communicate.
You learn to forgive.
You learn to adjust.
You learn to love beyond feelings.

And most importantly, you learn that every disagreement doesn’t have to become a war.
Sometimes, the person you’re angry with is still the person you love deeply.
Pray, don’t panic.

P.S. Guess who I talk to when I am angry with my Husband? Lol, My Husband

07/08/2026

Guard Your Heart Before Marriage ❤️

When we were preparing for our wedding, it almost felt like every odd was against us.
From arguments breaking out between the families, to all kinds of unsolicited and unhealthy advice that poses marriage as a dangerous ground.
Then, someone I hadn’t seen or spoken to in a very long time suddenly resurfaced, looking for a serious relationship and is well polish, and well to do, you know that kind of temptation.

My head suddenly became full and I had to paused for a moment and asked myself,

“Am I walking into danger?”
“Am I about to make the wrong decision?”
The questions, pressure and noise was so real.

“Wait... doesn’t the Bible say, ‘He who finds a wife finds a good thing’?”

Because I knew marriage was God’s idea, I made a conscious decision not to allow unhealthy advice or unnecessary distractions take root in my heart.

I’ve come to realize that one of the greatest battles before marriage isn’t finding the right person, it’s guarding your heart from the wrong voices.

Many enter marriage carrying unhealthy mindsets they inherited from society rather than from God’s Word, and those mindsets can destroy what God intended to flourish.

A healthy marriage requires choosing each other over and over again through changing seasons, extending grace and growing together.
It’s a daily conscious decision to love, honor, forgive, and grow together, even when life isn’t perfect.

PS: How much of the advice you live by comes from God, and how much has simply been borrowed from people’s opinions?

Stay prayerful.
Stay discerning.
And may God guide every step you take.
God bless you. ❤️

05/08/2026

It’s a beautiful morning 😍

31/07/2026

Was My Husband My Standard? ❤️😂

We all have standards.

The kind of man or woman we want...

The complexion, the height, the personality, the character, and sometimes even the tribe.

So, was my husband my standard?

Well... not exactly. 😄

Did he tick all the boxes on my list?

No.

But you see that dark and handsome box?

He checked it. 😂❤️

I also thought I wanted a man with sideburns. 🤣

And to be very honest, I wanted to marry a Yoruba man because, as a young girl, I believed Yoruba men were the most romantic. 😂

(Fun fact: I even started learning Yoruba in secondary school. 😂)

Fast forward to today...
I’ve found all the romance I could ever ask for in a Wurkun man. 😂❤️

Looking back now, I realize those were just fantasies.

Yes, God says He will grant us the desires of our hearts, but He also knows what is truly best for us.

Sometimes, what we ask for is good.

But what God gives us is better.

Today, there isn’t a single part of my husband that I don’t admire.

I’m genuinely and deeply in love with him.
We are a match made in heaven and by Heaven. (Our orchestration story cannot just be coincidental)

Being married to him made me realize something:
The standards I thought were high... were actually too low.

God gave me someone far beyond my checklist.
A man with emotional intelligence. ☑️
A man full of wisdom. ☑️
Kind-hearted. ☑️
Humble. ☑️
God-fearing. ☑️
And above all...
Someone I am deeply compatible with.

Maybe that’s the lesson here.
Sometimes we’re so focused on our checklist that we forget God is writing a better story.
He sees what we can’t see.
He knows what we need better than we do.
So don’t be afraid when God doesn’t answer your prayers exactly the way you imagined.
He may be replacing your preferences with His perfect will.
And trust me...
His plan is always worth it. ❤️

P.S: It’s worth noting that fantasy and real-life preferences aren’t always the same. Someone may fantasize about a “bad boy” or a powerful, successful man, but ultimately choose a partner who offers stability, kindness, mutual respect, and emotional security.

30/07/2026

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