15/11/2025
Several women have approached me, either confidentially or at our social events, regarding their fiancés' statements that they will not work after marriage; what counsel would you offer, and here is my response.
Women and Work in Today’s World: A Balanced Islamic Perspective
In our modern era, the role of women in society continues to evolve. One of the most debated issues—especially within Muslim communities—is whether women should work outside the home. While opinions differ, it is important to approach this topic with balance, rooted in Islamic principles and present-day realities.
Not All Women Will Work – And That’s Okay
It is a fact that not every woman is inclined or suited for a professional career. Some may prefer to focus on family life, entrepreneurship, or community service. Islam does not impose a one-size-fits-all model. Instead, it allows for flexibility, recognizing the diversity in women's circumstances and aspirations.
The Importance of Education for Women
Regardless of whether a woman chooses to work or not, one thing must be emphasized: education is essential. In today's world, where knowledge and literacy are powerful tools, every woman should be given the opportunity to pursue formal education. An educated woman contributes positively to her home, her children’s upbringing, and the larger society.
Career Women and Islamic Guidelines
If a woman decides to pursue a career, she must do so while observing the teachings of Islam. This includes:
- Maintaining modesty in dress and behavior (hijab)
- Avoiding unnecessary free mixing with the opposite gender
- Refraining from using perfumes in public
- Speaking with dignity and avoiding vulgarity
Islam does not prohibit women from working. In fact, history records many Muslim women who engaged in trade, teaching, medicine, and scholarship. The Prophet’s wife, Khadijah (RA), was a successful businesswoman. However, Islam insists on moral discipline in all spheres—including the workplace.
Inconsistencies in Marital Expectations
A growing issue is when men marry women who are educated and career-focused but later impose restrictions that prevent them from working. This inconsistency leads to frustration and conflict. If a man desires a non-working wife, he should be transparent from the outset and seek a partner who shares that vision—perhaps someone engaged in home-based or informal trade.
It is unfair to marry a career-oriented woman and then restrict her from fulfilling her professional aspirations without valid Islamic reasons.
Conclusion
Islam provides a just and flexible framework for women's roles in society. Women should be empowered to seek knowledge, and if they choose to work, they should do so within the boundaries of Shariah. As a community, we must move away from cultural extremes and create supportive environments where women can thrive—spiritually, intellectually, and professionally.
Let us remember that empowering women through education and fair opportunity is not a Western idea; it is deeply rooted in Islamic tradition.
Abu Mus'ab
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15/11/2025
