08/01/2026
Oluchi have always wanted to be independent and so began learning a digital skill, but most at times, she goes to bed with tears flowing from her eyes and soaking her pillow,
because, despite all her hard works, it felt like nothing was actually working out,
it was either things always went out of plan,
or few to none of the people around actually saw her vision so the lack of support is dealing recklessly with her,
or, the results aren't showing up as fast as she thought,
so this night she finally decided to drop everything and maybe look for something else to do with her life.
and just like all the time spent was gone.
So what exactly was wrong with Oluchi???
On her own, Oluchi would have been able to achieve great things with just the right systems in place and dedication,
but because she was dependent on others, sought validation from others and and lacked the dicipline to stay dedicated to one thing and watch that one thing grow,
everything scattered right in the middle of that journey.
as young people growing up, even if we don't learn any other thing, the few things we must learn are:
1. Dicipline: (this takes you farther than you would ever imagine)
2. Dedication and commitment: (know what you are supposed to be doing and stay committed to it)
3. Stop dwelling on people's opinions and validation of you: (you end up loosing your self in the process)
4. Consistency: (Being consistent with the right things makes you better at them today than you were yesterday)
5. Chase after your own personal growth: (This is one thing that can never be taken away from you)
