23/08/2025
I stumbled upon Maybe You Should Talk to Someone almost by accident. I was searching for something thoughtful to listen to during long walks, something that could sit in that space between memoir and self-help. The audiobook caught my attention not just because of the intriguing subtitle (“A Therapist, HER Therapist, and Our Lives Revealed”) but because I was curious about what it would be like to hear a therapist tell her own story of sitting on both sides of the couch. I pressed play, and soon, I was hooked.
Lori Gottlieb doesn’t present therapists as flawless sages; instead, she shows the messy, beautiful truth, that therapists are human too, with their own heartbreaks, blind spots, and struggles. In her narrative, she weaves together the journeys of her patients with her own story of seeking therapy after a painful breakup.
Listening to it felt like sitting in a room where someone turned on the light and said, “You’re not alone in your questions, your fears, or your pain.” It’s both deeply personal and universally relatable. You don’t just learn about therapy—you experience it.
Lessons:
1. Therapists Are Human Too
Lori reminds us that behind the professional role is a person who wrestles with life just like anyone else. This transparency breaks the myth of therapists as perfect guides and instead highlights their empathy.
2. Our Stories Shape Us More Than We Realize
The patients’ journeys show how much our past informs our present behaviors. Recognizing those hidden narratives is the first step toward healing and rewriting them.
3. Vulnerability Creates Connection
Whether in therapy or relationships, letting people see the truth, messy, unpolished, raw, creates deeper, more authentic bonds than keeping up a façade.
4. Change Often Begins With Awareness, Not Action
Many of the characters (including Lori herself) needed to first see their patterns before they could take steps to change. Awareness is healing in itself.
5. Pain Is Not Something to Escape But to Work Through
Avoiding discomfort only prolongs suffering. Real growth happens when we allow ourselves to sit with pain, process it, and move forward stronger.
6. Therapy Is a Mirror, Not a Fix
A therapist doesn’t give answers but reflects your own thoughts and patterns back to you so you can discover your path. The work is always yours to do.
7. Life Is Messy, and That’s Okay
The book reinforces the idea that imperfection is universal. Our struggles don’t make us broken, they make us human. Healing is not about erasing hardship but learning to live fully despite it.
Listening to this audiobook was like walking alongside a wise friend who isn’t afraid to be honest about their own wounds. Lori Gottlieb reminds us that therapy isn’t about fixing what’s “wrong” with us, it’s about discovering the humanity within us.
If you’ve ever been curious about therapy, or if you’re navigating a season of uncertainty, Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is more than just a book, it’s a companion.
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