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25/07/2025

If a man loves a woman's soul, he'll end up loving ONE woman. But if he loves a woman's face, all women in d world wont satisfy him. #

20/07/2025

Promote what you love instead of bashing what you hate.

16/07/2025

Serendipity...

16/07/2025

Eskiss me🙋🙋 o, I haff a kwesion;
Was the proverbs 31 (virtuous) woman a stay-at-home Wife/mum?

12/07/2025

Two things you should always have at the back of your mind in everything you do:

1. You will leave this world one day;
2. You will get old. Selah.

11/07/2025

People may have spoken negative things over you but the good news is, people don't determine your destiny, God does.

10/07/2025

THE POWER IN THESE 3

The place of PRAYER
The place of READING
The place of REASONING

If ur life is short of these; then u r only but existing n not leaving...

08/07/2025

Rumours can make you hate people who did nothing to you. Don’t carry secondhand hate. Get to know people for yourself.
The person feeding you gist might be the real problem...

06/07/2025

Can I ask you men a question seriously? If you meet a woman who has a lifestyle she enjoys, she dresses well, takes care of herself, loves going out, exploring new restaurants, traveling, trying new things, and making memories, why do you pursue her just to bring absolutely none of that energy into her life? Why chase a woman who’s full of life, constantly curating joy, only to offer bare minimum effort and half-hearted “vibes”? You see her glowing. You see her putting intention into the life she’s creating for herself. She’s not waiting around for someone to entertain her, she’s already building her version of happiness. So why come in talking about, “Well I wanna see you, but I don’t like to go out like that,” like that’s some type of attractive selling point? Sir, what exactly are you bringing to the table besides inconvenience and confusion? The worst part is that some of y’all will see her lifestyle, be drawn to it, and then immediately start trying to shrink her into your comfort zone. Why? If you’re not a man who enjoys dates, experiences, or putting in effort to make a woman feel special, then go find someone whose idea of quality time is sitting in silence and staring at the wall. Because that woman, the one out there living, laughing, glowing is not for you. Matching energy is a real thing. And no, that doesn’t mean spending money recklessly or faking a personality. It means intentionality. It means showing up in ways that enhance her life, not dim it. If you can't match what she’s already giving herself or at least be willing to contribute to her joy, then please respectfully stop bothering women who are happy, fulfilled, and not asking for a man to drag them backward. You don’t have to be rich. You don’t have to be flashy. But if you don’t have effort in your spirit, if thoughtfulness is foreign to you, and your version of dating is “you can come over and chill,” then you’re not ready for a woman like her. And that’s okay. Just don’t waste her time pretending like you are.

Deep Minds Anonymous

05/02/2025

What you survived can kill another person. What someone else scaled through can equally destroy you.

Stop comparing traumas. Stop belittling another person's trauma because it isn't as bad as yours.

Stop making other people feel worse about their bad experiences. Don't tell them that their challenge is nothing compared to yours.

Life isn't competition. Don't compete with traumas. Everyone deserves love, support, healing and recovery.

If you cannot help another person feel better about what they have been through, leave them alone. Don't add to their pain.

03/02/2025

Daniel Adeniyi wrote.

Brothers, before you go marry an energetic, enterprising or a vision driven lady, abeg crosscheck your ego to find out if your woman’s potential success in the near future will make you feel inferior or intimidated. No go marry lady wey get fire to succeed pass you only to wake up one morning feeling her drive is way more than you can bear.

It’s annoying hearing stories of men who dread their wife’s success. Men who feel demean at the very sighting of their wife’s potential to succeed above them.

Just heard of a guy who stopped his wife from writing a professional exam. Because he believes if she passes that exam, her promotion at work will make her less resourceful as a wife and mother. How?????

It’s not a sign of masculinity to kill your woman’s dream ooo. Naaa!. It’s a show of insecurity. Serious insecurity.

Not all women who succeed disrespect and under value their husbands. Cause that the direction most men tread this days.

And Bros…even if your wife succeeds, her shine isn’t at the detriment of your own shining now abi. So why the fear!!! And beside isn’t it true love between you two????

I’ve spent the past three years helping my wife build her business. Today even with her growing success, I can’t speak of any instance she disrespected me or value me less. As a matter of fact, I’ve become an ICON to her.

Real men ensure their wife’s shine at all cost. They push their woman to do more and become more. Men wey go force you to write that exam, start that business. Not men that will hold you back. Even if you want be a house wife, a real man will ensure you’re not idle…

If you are a married man and your wife is constantly walking behind you….HIDE YOUR FACE. The beauty of every man is his wife. People should see your success in your wife’s success.

PS: Shout out to every husband out there who’s constantly pushing their wives to fulfill their dreams. Men like myself who have spent our time, energy and resources just to ensure our wife’s glory is just as bright as ours. Even brighter seff.

God Bless Una Real Good…

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