Think before you act.

02/09/2025

02/09/2025

A pretty 32-year-old single mother from Randburg, Johannesburg
Looking for a serious life partner .
Message me for Contact detail .

DM

02/09/2025

Why Do So Many Marriages Break Down So Quickly?

It’s heartbreaking to see how often couples enter marriage full of love and promise, only to have things fall apart within a short time. Why does this happen so often?

One major reason is unrealistic expectations. Many people go into marriage believing it will be like a fairytale (beauty and the beast) constant romance, no arguments, smooth sailing. But marriage is real life. It requires patience, effort, compromise, and maturity. When reality hits bills, responsibilities, habits, differences in values it can feel overwhelming.

Another reason is lack of communication. A lot of couples never learn how to talk openly about difficult topics. Instead of discussing needs, frustrations, or boundaries, they avoid or bottle things up. This leads to resentment, emotional distance, or worse seeking connection outside the marriage.

Some partners break vows because they never fully understood the weight of those promises. Love and lust can feel strong in the moment, but commitment means sticking around even when things aren’t perfect. Without a strong foundation of friendship, trust, and mutual respect, it’s easy to stray or give up when the honeymoon phase fades.

And let’s be honest some people rush into marriage for the wrong reasons: pressure from family, fear of being alone, financial stability, or even to “fix” an already broken relationship. When the motive isn’t genuine love and readiness to grow together, cracks appear fast.

Marriage isn’t a magical fix it’s a journey. It requires two people willing to show up every day, even when it’s hard. So before saying "I do," ask yourself: Am I ready to love this person through change, challenges, and seasons of discomfort? If not, maybe it’s not time yet.

Let’s normalize talking about the work of love and marriage and, not just the wedding day glitz that is like candles in the wind.

Follow Relationship, marriage and lifestyle and Dating, Love and S*x Arena for more.

27/08/2025

Someone’s Spec🧬🌹

25/08/2025

So, on the bus today, someone brought out a real iPhone 14 Pro Max and was offering to sell it to my friend for 75k last. He said his mother was in the hospital, and they needed 75k for the surgery, which was why he needed the exact amount.

Since he mentioned 75k, my friend started pricing it for 50k.

To buy was hungrying him.

I collected it and checked.

Everything is working fine. The screen of the phone had the seller's picture as Screen saver.

I told my friend that the phone could be stolen.

He said even though it is, he would flash it and change the casing or resell it immediately.

That is how my friend paid, through transfer despite my warnings.

I was just holding the phone and looking at it in shock.

At a point I wished it was me that bought it.

But kai.

50k for iPhone?

No na.

No amount of desperation would make me sell for 50k.

We alighted from the bus and waved at the man who said he was rushing to the hospital to begin the process of the surgery with the money.

My friend and I sat down under a tree to look at the phone he had bought again.

While the phone, it turned off.

The screen could not turn on again.

We felt it was battery so we decided to find a place to charge it.

Suddenly, the screen turned on again.

We started seeing the screen showing.....Searching...

The search icon stayed for like 2 minutes, rotating like planet Earth.

Then it switched to..."Tracking... Tracking... Tracking..."

I was the one holding the phone at that moment.

I quickly gave my friend his phone to hold first.

He didn't collect it again.

He said I should hold it.

I didn't understand anymore. So I shouted at him.

"Bro collect your phone na."

"Shey you the hold am. Just the hold am de go na. Make e track finish."

"Track who?"

"The thing e dey track." I said.

"He asked Which thing?

I said Oga hold your phone."

"Calm down na. We no know wetin e the track. Shey I dey here na. Hold am. Maybe e dey track network" He said.

"Hiaaann... Let it continue tracking network in your hand abeg. Hold your phone biko."

I shoved the phone in his pocket and began to walk home.

Suddenly from behind my friend shouted and ran passed me.

I joined him to run...

While running I was asking him.

"Kelechi.. Why are you running?"

Kelechi shouted back.

"The phone show location found."

"Which location?"

"I no know o. Maybe na our location."

I was still running right with Kelechi when I saw that he was running with the phone in his hand.

I turned back silently and started running left.

Left was a bush.

But I didn't mind.

I kept following it and running for my life.

Only for me to turn back and see Kelechi following me behind with the phone still in his hand. Copied

😳 😂 🤣

11/03/2025

Wujat Isaac Peterson

11/03/2025

19/11/2024