Love Story

20/09/2024

My Love Story

The only time I've really felt loved...

I once was in love with this Ebony state girl lady, truth be told we so much love each other and I think she's the only love I've ever found, that's wr were so much into each other. She was a well known Nigerian actress and I a pastor, business man and musician.

At the beginning things were moving smoothly until we started talking about marriage around 2018. She was always in my place and I was always at her place, she had a lot of character problems and I took was that stubborn player as at then though. She knew much about me and couldn't allow any lady come around me or see me around any. It was a problem because the same way she was a public figure I took was one and in fact the national youth coordinator of my Church then and a music minister but she always feels threatened seeing ladies around me.
She would always shout and scold me but I won't mind, she doesn't like doing anything but I can do anything for her, she likes sleeping a lot, very playful and jovial, you can't stay around her without falling in love.

Then she was using me to practice her acting career too, because each time I offend her she will start crying unnecessarily, I truly do not know the one that is the real cry and the one she fakes as a movie actress on set. Most time she will carry knife and lock herself indoors threatening to kill herself in my house just because she thought I offended her or possibly she saw me with another lady without knowing what we were discussing .

I was ready to let all that slide and to go ahead with the marriage plans, she has met with all my people and they so love her so much apart from my PA then and one my brother but you know it's not compulsory everyone must love. Most of them that didn't love her understand her bad side so much than me because I was so much in love with her but most of my friends didn't like her too but still I was ready to move on.

So one day she told her mum about it and the whole problem started, her replied that it wasn't gonna workout because Anambra guys are ritualist and that she had a dream where I used her and even the so called mum for ritual, truth be told at that point I didn't have much but only have my God and was so sure about what my great future holds for me.

The whole problem started, she pleaded that we ignore the mum and do a court marriage but I refused because I know the consequences should anything happen to her in my house and I never knew that got into her. One day she was in my house and we started planning to get a visa for her so that she can go America and do somethings and then return back to the country after three months and after the whole plan one day we got to the American embassy and as God may have it they offered her the visa, surprisingly instead of us coming back rejoicing that was the day she told me of all the evil that I committed against her, how I was carrying women and around and how she proposed for court marriage and I refused and tagged it that it was I was having so many girls around me.
Lastly she said but I still love you though but if I leave Nigeria without the court marriage you might not love the outcome. The day she travelled I accompanied her to the airport and she cried out tears like rivers but I didn't know she was crying because she has concluded on leaving me when she gets to America but I consoled her and told her babe it's just 3months nah, i will be here for you but she reminded me about how many girls around me and she doesn't trust me being here for me but I promised her I would be waiting.

So my girl got to America and surprisingly it took for almost week to reach out to me unlike the girl that I know that won't stay a day without coming from Ogba Ikeja to Surulere sometimes at 12 Midnight just to see me simply because she called I didn't pick and she concluded I might be with a woman.
And that was how the problem started becoming uncontrollably worse until we stayed away from each other till now. Even though when she came back from America she came to my house to see me but things were never the same again, in fact she came suddenly without telling me simply to know how many girls she would found around me but unknown to her her friend already told me they are coming, we quarreled and and she went to me twin sisters house and complained to her promising she would come back to sort things out but that was the last she visited and finally she relocated finally to America and now lives in America, got married early this year.

That was the second heart break I experienced in my life and the last I would ever face because after that I made some vow about love and I've been strong and it helped me to become a better me that I am today, have studied and learnt a lot about relationships too and also what made her start feeling threatened and I have promised myself that it won't happen to any lady around me again.

I had to leave Lagos entirely for quite sometimes those days and travelled to Abuja and stayed away from that environment we usually stay but even when I came back everything became fresh again. In fact sometimes I felt like to just start crying on my own but I didn't, it was so painful, I thought I did all my best but my best wasn't enough, through this also I learnt how to handle heart break and breakups and that heart will never happen to me again.

I will stop here for now, next week I will tell you guys about the first Imo state girl I dated in Lagos.

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20/09/2024

CHRISTIAN FAITH MAKES NO SENSE pt1

Jesus leaving the 99 for the 1 seems illogical, irresponsible and senseless, until that one is you"❤❤❤

Everything about Christianity seems senseless because God chose these senseless way to confound the wise and so we all have chosen this senseless pattern to the glory of the God who first made it foolish.

If you ever chose to serve or follow with your senses then you have lost the way and will be missing the real thing about Christianity and if you ever want to compare the knowledge of this world and the faith knowledge you will miss the depth and width of this faith.

The real problem of the faith which we now preach is that men have started comparing spiritual things with the canal and the world sense knowledge and even in the beginning the fruit which Adam and Eve was warned of not eating which they later ate was called the fruit of the Knowledge of good and evil but this tree God warned Adam to stay away from but rather should eat the fruit of life.
Have you ever wondered why everything which gives life to man doesn’t always make sense but rather bitter, rough, senseless and undesirable? but way to death always comes from sweet sensible and desirable fruits or things.
According to the Bible God left His heaven to come and die for mankind and you believed it, right? Does that make sense at all but it does to we foolish ones because we have chosen to be like Him (God) who first became foolish to confound the wise in their wisdom.

If not how can you having your senses beleive that a virgin gave birth and God is the father without any contact.
How dare you beleive that a man died and rose from His grave after 3days and then went back to the heavens, and without picture and video evidence you believe such stories and the best of it is that that Man is our God, that is like you believing foolishly that I have become or I'm now God but you did believe that Christ is God?

Christianity doesn’t make sense and that is why the world sensibilities can never comprehend our believe because it is only meant for fools like us.

If you then started believing in the aforementioned you once have lost your senses believing, why then are you going back to your vomit trying to lay hold on your sense again by trying to make sense of everything the Bible said and the preaching of your pastors?
Many are now trying to make our faith make sense to the world by trying to explain even the things that are unexplainable and the things that are unfathomable meanwhile God chose to be hidden in the dark places so that the world cannot make sense of this great being.

Lastly, If they say there is no God leave it to them because they can’t understand how, if they say God can’t bear a son leave them in their ignorance because even you can't understand that, so what are you trying to explain there? If they say a virgin can’t give birth why argue it with them, even you chose to believe that because you are fool for Christ sake. And if they say Christ is not risen prove it to them only through power and I mean the resurrection power but stop explaining the things that you can’t make sense of.

Shalom!!!

©️Ossy Celestine N.N
I am a fool for Christ

04/11/2023

When the ‘BRIDE’ is a pianist and the ‘GROOM’ is a drummer what would the children be??

Beautiful STORY🖕🏿🥰🥰😘😘

03/11/2023

Dear Sister,

HAVE POSITIONED YOURSELF TO BE FOUND AND FOUND BY THE RIGHT MAN .

1) LOCATION

You can't be believing God for a Husband my Sister, and you're always in your room pressing phone (and it's even movies you're watching).

Do you plan to marry the mosquitoes in your room?

My Sister,
Locate yourself where you can be SEEN and HEARD.

2) PURPOSE

It's hard for a Lady genuinely in Purpose to mismarry.

Discover your Purpose and Run with it.

Purpose has a way of filtering Suitors for You. You can't just marry any guy that comes.

In your Purpose, you'll find YOUR Partner.

Outside your Purpose, you'll find A Partner.
(There's a difference)

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3) ACTIVITY

Join/Volunteer for activity groups, conferences, programs, workshops in your church (let serving God be your motive oh, not finding Husband), office, neighbourhood etc.

Socialise

Check and reply your inbox messages (I met my wife through Facebook, our relationship started from the legendary DM)

4) CHARACTER

You are praying for a Husband Material, but your character is not that of a Wife Material, my dear, tell me the truth, are you a th.ief?

Don't you know, even if your shape and beauty ATTRACTS him, it is your character that will KEEP Him.

5) PACKAGING.

Don't be deceived, looking and smelling good is part of positioning.

Some ladies, their dressing, plus the strong odor oozing from their hair and armpit is what is chasing suitors away from them, nothing else.

6) PRAYER & PATIENCE.

We all have different time tables.

If after doing all you can and there's a delay, please PRAY and WAIT. Trust God.

Please, Daughter of Zion, don't allow desperation get to you.

Patience Positions you Rightly.

Remember, the goal is not to just be married, but to be HAPPILY married.
Very soon, you too shall share your Wedding IV and we will attend your Wedding.

(c)Raymond sampson

31/10/2023

Jokes apart, what does the ‘T’ stand for?

27/10/2023

DEAR LADIES,

It is called a RELATIONSHIP, not an OCCUPATION,

Relationship is not a Hustle.

You know you don't owe a Man your BODY in a Relationship until he marries you, in the same vain, no Man owes you his WALLET until you are married to him.

To avoid all this plenty talk and see finish,

1) Get a Job as a Lady.

Earn something, no matter how little and be able to take care of your immediate needs.

Seek basic financial independence.

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2) As a Lady in a Relationship, no matter how little, buy gifts for the Young Man, even if it is N500 tie or t-shirt, or a sandal.

Once in a while, take him out.. Even if it is Malt N250 and Meatpie N300,

Even if it is N100 recharge card, buy and send him.

If you don't have a Job yet, SAVE FROM the money he gives you, and use it to get something for him. That's Wisdom..

Prove to him that you don't only know how to RECEIVE, you can also GIVE.

Earn your self respect.

3) STOP demanding Money from him as if he is an Atm.
Sometimes let him see you trying to solve your financial challenges without involving him.

Your birthday is coming, and you are demanding that he should throw you a party, or he should buy you an iPhone 12 as a gift.

Remember, he is neither your Husband nor your Father.

If he decides to throw you a party, fine. His choice..

I'll be blunt with you, ladies who DEMAND Money/Things from their Men are giving their Men something in za oda room... That's what gives them such effontery. This is the gospel truth. But this isn't kingdom Pattern. So use sense to ask him for money.

4) Trash the idea of "His Money is OUR Money, My Money is MY Money"

You work, and you use your own salary for ONLY yourself, or you are saving your own salary, and expecting him to spend his own to take care of you both. You are wicked and selfish.

When you act like this, always collecting, never contributing (financially), you make Men begin to see you as burdens, and demand for something in return for all the financial responsibilities they are saddled with for dating you.

Prove them wrong, don't be a Burden.

Even if you don't end up doing so, show that you CAN carry your weight.

If you don't have at all at all, it's a different case.

If you do, do the needful....

A RELATIONSHIP is not a SOLE PROPRIETORSHIP (for the Man alone) but a COLLABORATIONSHIP.

25/10/2023

DON'T LET IMPATIENCE SEND YOU BACK TO THOSE WHO HURT YOU

Impatience has pushed many people into unwanted relationships but the worst victims are those who went back to the very people who hurt them. Everyone deserves respect, love and care. If you have to leave any relationship because you feel worthless, devalued, disrespected or unloved, do that with pride and don’t look back.

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Some people will only realize your valves when you leave but that does not mean they have what it takes to treat you well when you go back to them in the name of relationship. Your Ex showing remorse for their behaviour or pleading for a comeback does not mean they have what it takes to treat you right.

Be patient! It is not a waste of time or ageing. Being patient means you have taken time to work on yourself. You do so by unlearning behaviours that hold you back. Identify any negativity in your life and get rid of them. It is about identifying your weaknesses and overcoming them. Being patient is about growing yourself for a better relationship in the future; That which you truly deserve.

Running back to the arms of your Ex out of impatience won't fix you or make your Ex treat you better. It’s like going back to what is less or don't deserve because you are not willing to work for a better relationship or what you deserve.

If you are able to work on yourself, you won't make a mistake or regret it. You will realize that one’s true love shows up when they work on themselves. Start a new relationship with a new mindset and not with people you already know in your past. Sometimes the devil you know cannot be compared to the angel you don't know.

In conclusion, "And let us not get tired of doing what is right, for after a while we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t get discouraged and give up" - Galatians 6:9 (TLB)

25/10/2023

BIG SECRETS IN MARRIAGE!

Secret 1

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his strength.

Secret 2

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

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Secret 3

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4

Every marriage has different levels of success. Don't compare your marriage with any one else. We can never be equal. Some will be far, some behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time your marriage dreams shall come true.

Secret 5

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:
Ignorance
Prayerlessness
Unforgiveness
Third party influence
Stinginess
Stubbornness
Lack of love
Rudeness
Laziness
Disrespect
Cheating
Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone.

Secret 6

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

Secret 7

God cannot give you a complete person you desire. He gives you the person in the form of raw materials

24/10/2023

I'm yet to understand why a man would rent an apartment and keep renewing the rent for a lady when he can easily use same money to do the right thing and bring her home permanently.

Or are you indirectly saying she's not wife material enough?

Also men who say they have no money to settle down but have money to pay and sleep with anything in skirt and also spend lavishly on her.

is this not eberiberism?

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Ladies who accept this are really not wise. Definitely if he visits you, you can't refuse him access to you.

Sadly, he may end up leaving when he's done with you for another responsible lady who knows her worth

That money he wants to use in renting an apartment for you or take you round the world as his girlfriend, tell him to come see your people and do the needful...

This is how some persons keep having fun all through their youthful age and begin to look for who'd wife them when they should be relaxing in their own homes....

Some of these men can not even introduce you to people who matters to them. Not their parents or siblings.

Ladies...wise up!!!
There's time for everything
Don't spend your time having fun when you should be making great plans and investing in yourself

24/10/2023

WHEN A MAN REALLY LOVES A WOMAN.

Men are different than women in many ways, but one of the most obvious is how they express themselves emotionally. If he’s never said “I love you” out loud or doesn’t seem very affectionate, don’t worry because there are plenty of other signs that show what he feels for you on a more subtle level.

He might help support your career, take care of all aspects of your life (from cooking to giving advice), never fail to surprise with something thoughtful like flowers or cards, or even just loving who you naturally are without trying to change anything about you. It all comes down to what he does and how it makes you feel, rather than just saying the words that we can often take for granted in a relationship.

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When a man really loves a woman, he'll do everything and/or anything in his power to show it. This means he'll make an effort to be with you, even if it requires overcoming big challenges.

When a man loves a woman, he won't disappear without a word or ignore you. Instead, he'll regularly call or text to check in and express his feelings. He'll always treat you with respect and often compliment you, calling you beautiful or pretty.

More than just words, he'll prove through his actions that you're incredibly special to him. You'll never have to wonder about his feelings because he'll make sure you know just how much he cares.

To your continuous growth and wellness.

❤️

24/10/2023

PERTAINING TO MARRIAGE AND ALL RELATIONSHIP…

“Scripture teaches that we should observe & evaluate others’ behavior so we can respond & minister to them in appropriate ways, which may even involve loving confrontation. (See Matthew 7:1-5; 18:15; & Galatians 6:1.)

We cross the line, however, when we sinfully judge others, which is characterized by a feeling of superiority, condemnation, bitterness, insubordination, lack of trust and love or resentment…

When these attitudes are present, our judging has crossed the line & we're playing God.”

Why can’t I look at my husband and know why he’s not happy and then be calm and let him feel free to express himself than claiming to be right when I’ve not even heard him speak or feeling offended already on why he’s even angry? Who who said a husband can’t give the wife a listening ear simply because he’s the husband?

Did the scripture not say, such as you wish that should be done unto you do so unto others (Math 7:12)

it is commonly referred to as the "Golden Rule." "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets" (Matthew 7:12). "Do to others as you would have them do to you" and this will solve 100% problems we have in every relationship and marriages today.

Many think that the Golden Rule is merely reciprocal, as if we act based on how we want to be treated, it also mean that whatever you want people to do to you be the first to do so to them, let them learn peace, giving, love, encouragement and whatever you want them to do to you or unto other from you, they should learn from you and if the husband or the wife should behave in this manner there would be no room for issues in every relationship.

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Shalom!!!

24/10/2023

24/10/2023

HOW TO WIN AS A COUPLE

1. Cover each other's weaknesses

2. Celebrate each other's strengths

3. Have no topics that you cannot talk about. No judgment. Openness will open your mind to solutions

4. Consider each other's opinions and contribution

5. Be 100% in. Full commitment

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6. Make incremental progress. Seek growth, not perfection

7. Develop a culture of reviewing your relationship; are we doing OK, and where can we improve?

8. Accept correction, be humble

9. Work on yourselves to be the best wife, the best husband

10. Have joint goals

11. Support each other in your individual goals

12. Keep each other as a priority even as you have friends

13. Thank God together. A thankful couple is a powerful couple

14. Don't compete with each other, accommodate each other

15. Bring whatever lessons or opportunities you learn out there into your marriage. Learn together

16. Be patient. Some wins take time

17. When you fall whether as a couple or as individuals, pick each other up

18. Protect what you have built together. It is very easy to lose it fast

19. Control your tempers. A lot of bad choices are made in moments of anger

20. Don't copy other couples. Create your testimonies.

24/10/2023

When u get sick, he calls, when he gets sick, he still calls.
you have Airtime He calls, u don't have airtime he still calls.
Your birthday He buys u a Gift, His birthday he still takes u out.
He sends u money, and still calls to confirm if you've received an alert, u only flashed Him and u re already scolding him to know why he hasn't called back.

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He invited u for a lunch, took care of your bills, u only dressed better than him, but u couldn't afford your transport.
He met u with your friends u sounded rudely, you met him with his friends he was Caring & polite.
He secretly borrowed money to give u, u always told him the money is too small.
Things turn around for him for good and he became very rich, he left u, Too late, You re now ready to love him and u are shading tears, deceiving other women saying; u were their for him when he had nothing, all guys are same..
Your impact in a relationship would determine if a man will marry u, and not your presence.
Should I increase the volume?🔊

20/10/2023

SEVEN (7) POWERS OF LOVE!

1. THE POWER TO HEAL YOU.
Love has a way of giving you a conducive environment to heal. It reminds you that even though the past was tough, you are not alone, it is OK now.

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2. THE POWER TO REVEAL TO YOU WHO YOU ARE.
Getting close to someone makes you know yourself more. Having someone to love reveals to you how much you can love. The person also gets to highlight the good traits in you that you take for granted. Getting close to someone also reveals to you weaknesses and flaws in you; you get to discover you have a hot temper, you have the potential of disappointing, you can fall short. This realization is not to make you feel bad, but to bring to your attention what to improve.

3. THE POWER TO INSPIRE YOU.
Love has a way of bringing out the best in you; you find yourself stretching yourself when you love someone... perhaps to make them smile, perhaps because you are part of a winning team, perhaps because love lifts up the spirit.

4. THE POWER TO SHARPEN YOUR VISION.
Doing life with someone has a way of making you think long term. The person you are with also helps to make your vision clearer because they contribute to it and help you notice your blindspots.

5. THE POWER TO MAKE YOU DO MORE.
By yourself you can do a lot, but with someone to love and be loved by, you two can do so much more. Two are better than one for they have a better reward for their labour. Don't underestimate the teamwork of two people in love.

6. THE POWER TO OPEN DOORS.
Some doors will only open when you are with someone special. There are blessings for you as an individual, and blessings for two. Call it favour, call it a phenomenon; many have confessed doors opened in their lives the moment they committed.

7. THE POWER TO MAKE YOU HEALTHY.
Love is good for your health all round; mental health because you have someone to open up to, emotional health because you are not alone, physical health because you have someone to help you, mind you and care for you.