30/06/2026
Let's have a real conversation today π
Quick question β and I need your HONEST answer, not the one that sounds good:
Is love a FEELING or a CHOICE?
Drop your answer in the comments β and explain why you believe that. Let's debate it properly. π
Because I just published the most honest answer I've ever written about love on Donvrichy Blog β and my answer is: it's BOTH. But not equally at every stage.
Love starts as a feeling. You don't choose who you're drawn to. You don't decide to feel that warmth when someone enters the room.
But love that LASTS is a choice. Repeatedly made. Every day.
Because the feeling of love isn't constant β stress, tiredness, conflict, and ordinary life all dampen it temporarily. The couples who survive those moments are the ones who CHOSE to keep showing up, even when the feeling was quiet.
I also covered:
π What is true love vs just love?
π How to know the difference between love and infatuation
π The 6 signs someone genuinely loves you (not what they SAY, what they DO)
π Can love fade β and why it does
π What love looks like specifically in Nigerian culture
Full post π
https://www.donvrichyblog.com.ng/2026/06/%20what-is-love-nigerian-perspective-honest-answer.html
Drop your answer below β feeling or choice? And tag someone who would debate this with you. π
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What is love? The honest, complete answer β true love vs infatuation, signs someone loves you, love as feeling vs choice.