Dardi B

30/07/2025

To all men, please share ONE thing you avoided at all costs to save money?

19/07/2025

One of the most underrated ingredients for having a good life is a clear conscience. To know you aren't out here doing people dirty, hiding who you are, or screwing people over. Karma is real, energy is contagious. Live accordingly.

17/07/2025

To whom it may concern

17/07/2025

We could spend our whole lives waiting for someone to apologize or take responsibility for how they hurt us before we decide to let go. But the problem with that scenario is, we’ve made someone else in charge of how and when we heal. If we truly want to break a cycle and heal, we have to forget about what the other person is or isn’t doing and focus entirely on our own process.

15/07/2025

Plug me into opportunities, please.

I’m not as put-together as you think oh. I’m just making it work.

13/07/2025

Blood Means Nothing If It Bleeds You Dry*

I used to be the type who held family above all else.

Bloodline.

Blood over everything.

If it was about family, I took it personally—until I grew enough to realize the oldest law of survival: nothing matters more than self-preservation.

Even in the most "functional" families, you can be used.

Abused.

The abuse may not leave bruises—just condescension wrapped in concern.

See what your mates are doing!”

Small pressure, you don dey purge?

…from people who’ve never asked,“How are you really holding up?” Neglect, disrespect and contempt wears many faces. Sometimes, it sits at the dinner table.

The moment you recognize it? Leave.

Distance and silence are the sharpest tools to cut through that noise. I learned the hard way: when you remove yourself from reach, abuse shrinks. Proximity breeds entitlement—even among those who share your DNA.

Your sister fit see money pass you and suddenly her tongue loosens with disrespect. But when there’s fire to quench or violence to curb in the familyline?“You’re the only one who can handle it.”😅

There’s a chilling clarity that comes with realizing you’re expendable. You are not as important in the equation like the T in often. You stop fighting the truth. You internalize it. And you move.

There is something called the Firstborn’s Curse: Unless you’re an *ofogiri*, failure isn’t just personal—it’s a betrayal.

In Nigeria, some parents measure love in what you provide. I’ve seen firstborns handed siblings like debts, praised only when the account is full. But stumble financially? Watch favor evaporate.

I connected with this truth the painful way—through effort met with ridicule, through comparisons thrown like darts. So I asked myself: Why pour love into a cup with holes?

Build Your Own Table

Family isn’t just blood. It’s values.

It’s reciprocity.

When your money finishes, even those you fed will ask,“How did you waste it?”

So here’s my new picture: I cycle away.*

Not out of hate—out of survival.

You are not required to destroy yourself for people who’d never do the same. Go where you’re wanted. Nobody ever died from choosing peace over a poisonous pedigree.

Focus on the family you make.

The one that doesn’t demand your bones as collateral.

13/07/2025

24/03/2025

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24/02/2025

"Understand My Maintenance Before You Buy Me" – A Layer’s Story

I may look small and simple, but don’t let that fool you. I am a layer hen, and before you bring me home, you need to understand what it takes to keep me producing eggs for up to a year.

From the moment I arrive, I need a warm, clean space to live. My house must be well-ventilated but protected from rain, heat, and cold. My bedding should be dry and comfortable because stress will affect my egg production.

Food? Oh, I don’t just eat anything. I need balanced feed rich in calcium, protein, and essential vitamins to keep my body strong and my eggshells hard. If you give me poor feed, I’ll lay weak eggs—or worse, stop laying at all! Water? I drink more than you think, especially in the heat. Without enough clean water, my egg production drops.

Lighting is also key. I need at least 14-16 hours of light daily to keep my egg-laying cycle steady. If the days are too short, my body thinks it's time to rest instead of laying.

And don’t forget disease control! Keep my home clean, check my health regularly, and protect me from infections. If I get sick, the eggs stop coming, and your investment is lost.

So, before you buy me, ask yourself: Are you ready for the responsibility? If yes, take good care of me, and I’ll reward you with fresh eggs almost every day for a year !

11/02/2025