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THE PROBLEM WITH TODAY'S IDEA OF LOVE IS....The problem with todays idea of love is selfishness. People want to be loved...
29/08/2025

THE PROBLEM WITH TODAY'S IDEA OF LOVE IS....

The problem with todays idea of love is selfishness. People want to be loved on their own terms and conditions without wanting to consider the other person's feelings and conditions.

It's all about what can you get and not what you can give. You expect to be treated as a King/Queen yet you want to treat your partner as a joke or subservient slæve who is meant to bend over backwards to please you.

Nowadays, people are entering a relationship with an exit plan when things get rocky and stormy. People have no patience or communication skills... Nowadays relationships have been reduced to if you want to leave, just leave.. The problem with this attitude and mindset is if you don't deal with issues they only get worse, you will constantly carry the unresolved issues onto every new relationship that you get into only for you to get frustrated and disappointed.

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SIX (6) STAGES OF ROMANTIC  RELATIONSHIP!𝗠𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗮 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗮 𝗳𝗲𝘄 𝘀𝘂𝗿𝘃𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗵𝗮𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘁𝗵...
27/08/2025

SIX (6) STAGES OF ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP!

𝗠𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗮 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗮 𝗳𝗲𝘄 𝘀𝘂𝗿𝘃𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗵𝗮𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲.

Here’s a breakdown of the 𝟲 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽, and what each one demands from you:

𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟭: 𝗜𝗡𝗙𝗔𝗧𝗨𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 (𝟬–𝟯 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀)
When everything feels magical — but most of it is fantasy.
• Intense attraction and excitement
• Constant communication and longing
• Idealization: seeing them as perfect
• You’re falling fast — but not deep yet

Enjoy the spark, but don’t mistake it for a foundation.

𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟮: 𝗥𝗢𝗠𝗔𝗡𝗖𝗘 (𝟯–𝟲 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀)
The butterflies turn into bonding.
• Emotional connection deepens
• Affection and physical intimacy increase
• Shared experiences grow
• You feel “in love”

Chemistry starts it, but connection sustains it.

𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟯: 𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗜𝗧𝗬 𝗖𝗛𝗘𝗖𝗞 (𝟲–𝟭𝟮 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀)
Love now has a mirror — and it shows the truth.
• Flaws, habits, and differences emerge
• Disagreements surface
• Your ability to communicate is tested
• Love becomes a choice, not just a feeling

This stage makes or breaks the relationship. Grow, or it cracks.

𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟰: 𝗜𝗡𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗔𝗖𝗬 & 𝗧𝗥𝗨𝗦𝗧 (𝟭–𝟮 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀)
You’re either building something solid — or drifting apart.
• Emotional vulnerability increases
• Deeper understanding and acceptance
• Shared values and life goals become clear
• Security and trust replace uncertainty

Safety, not spark, builds intimacy.

𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟱: 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗠𝗜𝗧𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧 (𝟭–𝟱 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀)
Now it’s about the life you’re building, not just the love you’re feeling.
• Long-term decisions are made together
• Responsibilities are shared
• You face life’s seasons as a team
• Love feels rooted see

Love is not something you feel every day, it’s something you choose every day.

𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟲: 𝗚𝗥𝗢𝗪𝗧𝗛 & 𝗘𝗩𝗢𝗟𝗨𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 (𝟱+ 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀)

It’s no longer just about staying together — it’s about growing together.
• Personal and relational growth
• Navigating change and life challenges
• Deep companionship and peace
• Reinventing love in each season

Great relationships evolve, they don’t stay where they started.

𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗰𝗹𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻
You don’t need a 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽.
You need two people 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲.

Don’t quit at the hard parts. That’s where most love stories lose their plot.

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DOES MALARIA REALLY CAUSE BAD DREAMS??Yes, malaria itself can cause bad dreams and other psychiatric symptoms, such as d...
25/08/2025

DOES MALARIA REALLY CAUSE BAD DREAMS??

Yes, malaria itself can cause bad dreams and other psychiatric symptoms, such as depression, anxiety, and confusion.

Additionally, some anti-malarial drugs, like mefloquine and Malarone, are known to cause side effects including bad dreams or vivid dreams, and in some cases, these dreams can be a sign of a more serious issue.

Fever dreams, which are unpleasant dreams caused by a fever, can also occur with malaria due to the body's elevated temperature.

REASONS FOR BAD DREAMS DURING OR AFTER MALARIA:

1. MALARIA INFECTION ITSELF: The disease can lead to neuropsychiatric symptoms, including sleep disturbances, bad dreams, confusion, and depression.

2. ANTI-MALARIAL DRUGS: Certain drugs, such as mefloquine (Lariam) and Malarone, can have side effects that include nightmares or abnormal dreams.

3. FEVER DREAMS: The fever associated with malaria can alter brain function, leading to more intense, vivid, or disturbing dreams, a phenomenon known as a fever dream.

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Always tell people different stories about yourself, so that when they gossip about you they will argue!💯💯 ....✍️       ...
23/08/2025

Always tell people different stories about yourself, so that when they gossip about you they will argue!💯💯 ....✍️

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21/08/2025

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Not everyone staring at you are admiring you! Some are amazed that you survived  the trap they set for you! 💯💯
21/08/2025

Not everyone staring at you are admiring you! Some are amazed that you survived the trap they set for you! 💯💯

A or B? Choose wisely!
20/08/2025

A or B? Choose wisely!

While grooming your daughters to be wife material, also groom your sons to be husband material!💯💯
19/08/2025

While grooming your daughters to be wife material, also groom your sons to be husband material!💯💯

10 REASON WHY YOU MISSED YOUR PERIOD👇A woman may miss her period due to several factors, including pregnancy, stress, ho...
15/08/2025

10 REASON WHY YOU MISSED YOUR PERIOD👇

A woman may miss her period due to several factors, including pregnancy, stress, hormonal imbalances (like PCOS), certain medications (like birth control), and lifestyle factors such as weight changes or excessive exercise. Breastfeeding, perimenopause, and some chronic illnesses can also cause missed periods.

Here's a More Metailed Breakdown:👇

1. MEDICATIONS: Certain medications, such as some types of birth control (pills, injections, IUDs), antidepressants, antipsychotics, and some cancer treatments, can cause missed periods.

2. PREGNANCY: This is the most obvious reason and should be checked with a test.

3. HORMONAL IMBALANCES: Polycystic O***y Syndrome (PCOS): A common condition causing irregular periods due to hormonal imbalances.

4. STRESS: Both physical and emotional stress can affect the hormones that regulate periods.

5. PERIMENOPAUSE AND MENOPAUSE: The transition to menopause (perimenopause) can cause irregular periods, and periods stop altogether at menopause.

6. THYROID ISSUES : Problems with the thyroid gland can disrupt the menstrual cycle.

7. WEIGHT CHANGE: Significant weight loss or gain can disrupt hormone levels and cause missed periods.

8. EXCESSIVE EXERCISES: Intense physical activity, especially in athletes, can lead to amenorrhea (absence of periods).

9. SOME MEDICAL CONDITIONS: Certain chronic illnesses, like celiac disease or kidney disease, can also affect menstrual cycles.

10. BREASTFEEDING: The hormones released during breastfeeding can suppress ovulation and menstruation.

11. Miscalculating the menstrual cycle, or even a sudden illness with a high fever, can also cause a temporary delay.

If a woman is concerned about missed periods, it's crucial to consult with a doctor to determine the underlying cause and discuss appropriate management, especially if it's accompanied by other symptoms.

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