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I am Julian, Montebello, CA (2026)

01/12/2026

I stumbled on the video of this young girl attempting to install a wig, I watched closely till the end to see the final result and was amazed as to how professionally done it was.

She knows her onions and so does the money pour in. From just one wig installation, she made on average of10k.

I say this because when I installed a wig, months ago I paid 15k and that's fair. In high end areas we talk about 25k-50k. Some brands charge as high as 100k and above. Yet the tools are not so expensive, and you can buy a full kit and reuse it for multiple installs.

So what are installers really selling?

Knowledge. Skill. Precision.

This is why I tell young ladies, between 15 and 30, to decenter men. Center your growth. Build a skill. It doesn’t have to be glamorous or elite.

Wig installation is a high end skill that is going nowhere, not in 5 years, not in 10. Wigs have taken over, and tutorials cannot replace physical patronage.

Now, let’s talk numbers.

Five installs a day at 15k = 75k daily.
Multiply that by 25 working days = 1.8 million+ a month.

Even on slow days, one client a day you’re still clearing 300k+ monthly. And learning the skill costs just 50k–80k.

Dear ladies,
Don’t sit on potential.
Don’t sleep on opportunity.
Empower yourself this year.

01/12/2026

Control often hides behind preference.
Any man who insists on partner who is young, unexposed, and unable to question him isn’t looking for love, he’s looking for control. That’s an abuse signal.
Men who cannot provide usually replace provision with emotional manipulation.
When intimidation fails, you begin to see r@ge, and vawulence.

This is why wealthy men teach their daughters early:
Don’t date potential without protection.
If a broke man truly loves a rich man’s daughter, the father doesn’t hand her over he upgrades the man, his mindset, discipline, and financial capacity.
Marriage is not just emotional.
It is financial leadership and emotional maturity working together.

01/12/2026

When the whole Sheila Courage and Israel issue happened, Sheila College was actually the happiest person. The man was the one who was and bitter not because he loved her so much, but because she didn’t get pregnant for him.

If she had gotten pregnant during their courtship or relationship, he would have proudly used the “baby mama” label to mock and diminish her. But he couldn’t. And that failure made him furious. She walked away unscathed, and that is power.

That is one of the strongest things you can ever do to an unfaithful efulefu.
Do not have his child.

Men like that draw power from saying:
“I made you a baby mama.”
“I made you a single mother.”
Especially in this part of Africa, those labels are often used to shame women. When a man cannot claim that power over you, it unsettles him. It leaves unsettled.
Till now Israel is still very much unsettled.

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01/12/2026

New week, same God. May doors open, peace remain, and favor speak for us. 🙏

01/11/2026

😢😢When you have a dog that's more than you can control.

01/11/2026

😎😎THE SCAMMER I MET ON A DATING APP.

The day I joined the app, I wasn’t looking for anything serious. I was just exploring, trying to understand how things work there.

Not long after, a message popped up.
I didn’t know him. His profile picture was very polished, almost too polished, like something taken overseas. His location read United States, but his name was clearly Igbo. That contrast already caught my attention.

He started the usual way:
“Hello babe, how are you? You’re beautiful.”
Then the routine questions followed.
Where are you from?
Are you single?
What do you do?
Normal small talk. Nothing alarming. At least, not yet.

A little later, he casually mentioned his base and said he was a businessman. He added that he was 43 years old. Still calm. Still smooth.

Then came the personal angle.
He said he was a single father with one daughter and asked if I was married. As a smart girl, I followed the script, I told him I’m a single mother of three, and that I have a healthy, respectful co-parenting relationship with my children’s father. No drama. No bad blood.

That’s where the tone shifted.
Instead of respecting the boundary, he started digging.
“How is your husband?”
“What happened between you?”
“What do you do for a living?”
That’s when everything clicked.

We hadn’t spoken properly for three days, yet suddenly he wanted details about my work and income. No emotional connection. No consistency. Just quiet observation… then interrogation.

That’s when I confirmed it.

This wasn’t interest.
This was profiling.

Scammers often start like this. They plant “soft stories” early, being a single parent, having little support, or mentioning sick or struggling relatives to create sympathy and trust before the real questions begin.

I didn’t argue.
I didn’t explain.
I didn’t try to educate him.
I simply blocked him.
Because once you’ve seen a gold digger or a scammer before, you recognize the signs before the question even lands.

Stay alert. Always.

01/11/2026

Lately, I’ve seen a lot of women getting scammed by men, whether they’re dating them or just men they know. So here’s a quick reminder: never lend a man money in a relationship even if he has previously spent on you. If he once gave you 10k and later asks you for a 100k loan do not send. If you are so magnanimous send a tithe of it.
Never give more than he has ever given you.
And if he has never invested in you at all, then you have zero business borrowing or lending him money.
If you have excess money and don’t know what to do with it, buy makeup, buy wigs, invest in yourself, enjoy your life, but never lend a man money in the name of love, dating, or relationship.
Never.

01/11/2026

This beautiful lady Sunshine Esther,lost her life after undergoing surgery for fibroid she didn’t even know she had until it was too late.

According to reports, she began complaining of severe stomach pain on December 28, 2025. She was taken to Orchid General Hospital, where she was only given pain relief. No proper treatment was administered, and the nurses failed to inform her family that the doctors were on strike.

I have never felt sad for someone unrelated, but few times her content popped on my screen, I loved it.

Nigerian healthcare system failed her. What a shame.

01/11/2026

I don’t know the full details of the argument or what led to it.
What I do know is this, a man keeled his wife in the presence of his children.
God pun*sh those of you who flood comment sections saying, “you’re b ,” “you ha*te men,” and all that nonsense.
Every single time on this internet, men are keeling, betraying, and abu*sing their wives.
January has barely started, yet the stories are already piling up.
And you want silence?

Statistics don’t lie.
Most domestic vio*lence cases are committed by men. Most cheating that destr*ys homes is done by men.Most abu*se women endure comes from men.
So no, I will not “balance” my voice to make you comfortable.You’re asking me to abandon a building that is collapsing and instead go admire one that is still standing. That is ins*nity.

I’ll always say this, it is better to be a single mother alive, than a married woman ab*sed, hum*l*ated, or bu*ried. Think about the children.
What kind of psychology develops in a child who watches his father m@rder his mother?

If you’re , take that to your own page and start advocating:
“Men, stop keling your wives.”
That’s the advocacy I want to see.
Don’t come to my page to police my voice.Don’t bring useless advice here.Don’t project your guilt here.

Women are not the dominant perpetrators of abu*se and mu*rder in relationships.
Men are.
And that is where my focus will remain.If you don’t like it, that is your problem.Keep it to yourself.

01/10/2026

I would advise Yul to seek May’s forgiveness or remain single, and here’s why.

When Yul was married to May, he was one of the best actors and producers in Nigeria, loved by his fans. But after the marriage ended, the way he handled it caused his reputation to suffer. The same thing happened with 2Baba.

Remember, Yul started acting before AY the comedian and many others, yet when it comes to the international market blockbuster Netflix releases and foreign-standard films, AY has outpaced him, leaving Yul behind in the local Asaba movie scene. Daniel Etim that came yesterday has also moved to the mainstream.

The truth is, if he had stayed with Queen May, by now we might have seen him branch into bigger industries, like the mainstream movie market, rather than remaining confined to the local Asaba scene.

This is something many men do not understand, relationships and personal decisions can significantly impact your career growth and opportunities. Not every woman can be left without consequence, and not every marriage can end without affecting your destiny. When you leave poorly, it can hold you back.
The lesson is simple, polygamy, mistreating your wife, or ending a marriage badly can negatively affect your success.

01/10/2026

Can we all agree that Yorubas are the loudest people in Nigeria. They love noise, and almost all discussions are carried out in a high pitch.

01/10/2026

I’ve decentered men in my life
that I don’t believe my happiest day
will be the day I get married.

For me,
the most important day of my life
will be the day I become financially independent.

The day I don’t need to depend on anybody.
The day I can afford what I want
without panic, without guilt, without permission.
The day I don’t have to ask a man
before I live comfortably.
That day…
that day is freedom.

A lot of women were taught
that having a piece of a man
is better than having no man at all.
So they agree to date anything.
Endure anything.
Shrink themselves for anything.

But that is not my truth.

Marriage is good.
Marriage can be an achievement,
an earthly one.
But marriage does not fulfill destiny.
Money doesn’t give purpose,
but it gives speed.
It gives options.
It gives power to choose.

There are destinies that cannot survive poverty.
There are marriages that have destroyed
more lives than they’ve built
and we don’t like to talk about that part.

The women who were silenced.
The dreams that were delayed.
The talents that died quietly
inside “good marriages.”

So for me,
financial independence comes first.
A man comes as an addition.

Not a crown.
Not a savior.
Not a requirement.

Society overhypes marriage.
It is important, yes
but it is not divine completion.

God never said you must marry
to fulfill purpose.
You can fulfill destiny unmarried.
You cannot fulfill destiny without capacity.

I am Julian

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