20/05/2023
From a member who claims she is a top member. Hmm, I deny this kind of top member, because clearly, she is not representing at all.
Good afternoon mum
How are you ma'am? I also greet my fellow members. Pls I need our advices.
Ma my husband to be have issue with his apartment so he started living in my place. So ma on February he told me his brother wants to visit. I said OK. This brother visited and yet to leave. Ma it's a one room apartment. This brother visited, the next week, another brother visited, the upper week another cousin visited. And another. Ma all these brothers (5 in total) none is working. I will buy bag of rice in 2weeks, it will finish. Buy beans, beverage, they will finish it just in days and be looking at me to buy another one. Even my husband to be is not helping. I have asked him when his brothers are leaving and he said they will leave when they are ready to leave. That means he doesn't know when they are leaving and he is not giving me money to cook or buy anything. Everything is with my own money. And because of this I stopped buying anything and I stopped cooking in my house and yet they will not buy. Always waiting for me to buy and cook. Because I have started eating outside my husband to be started getting angry with me. He will be asking me does it mean there's no food again in this house and I will tell him no money again, he should give me money to cook. Yesterday he called me and told me never to come home empty handed that him and his brothers are hungry. I told him to do transfer so that I can use it and buy food and he said they are in my house and therefore I should take care of them. He warned me not to come home empty handed. Mummy Ngo I came back to my own house and he beat me because I did not buy food to cook. The brothers supported him and asked him to beat me well. Mummy Ngo. Even the other cousin slapped me too because of the food and said I have no respect.
Mummy Ngo I don't know what to do. If I ask him to leave my house, is it going to make him break up with me? I love him and want to get married to him. I don't want things to soil between us. Just advice me on the best way to handle this so that his brothers can leave my house.