22/07/2026
I married my husband traditionally when I was pregnant for my son, after I put to bed, 3 months later my husband travelled to south Africa. My son is 14 years now and in jss 3 and hasn't set his eyes on his father except through video calls and the calls is usually 5 to 6 times in a year. For this past 14 years, I has been staying in my parents house
He is the only one that can call us but whenever I tried to call that same number, it won't connect and I have asked him severally why it's so, he keeps telling me that it could be network issues.
Whenever I ask him for money, he will always tell me that he is trying to save enough money to build a better future for us that I should look for a way to handle the expenses because he knows that I have been the one managing my mother's shop since my mother's demise
Every year, my husband will tell us that he will come home by December, when it reach December, he will give one excuse and postpone it the the upper year
3 years ago, I met this young guy who has been really helpful both emotionally, financially and physically even when he knows that I'm married
Just few weeks ago, my husband told me that unfailingly, he is going to come back this year, and that if he finds out that I have been with another man, he will make sure to end our marriage
My new guy is telling me to leave my husband and marry him or continue waiting for my husband and forget about him
I am between the devil and deep blue sea right now, i need your sincere advice 🙏👇
Source: Nikkah Connect