13/03/2026
You can’t always eat your cake and still have it when it comes to issue of marriage. See ehhh marriage and single life are two completely different lifestyles. When you are single, you can think mostly about yourself. Your choices affect only you.
But when you are married, your choices affect another human being. Your decisions matter to someone else. Your actions can build or damage the relationship. That is the reality of marriage.
I marvel each time I see Some people who wants the beautiful parts of marriage
the love, the companionship, the support, the public celebration and admiration, But they are not ready for the discipline marriage requires.
They want the ring, but not the responsibility. They want the title of “wife” but they still want the freedom of single life.
Unfortunately, life does not work that way. Marriage requires maturity, accountability, willingness to consider someone else before yourself sometimes.
That is why some relationships struggle.
Not because love is missing, But because one person is still mentally living a single life while claiming to want marriage.
The truth many people don’t like to hear is this:
You cannot build a peaceful marriage if you are still holding tightly to a single lifestyle.
At some point, you have to choose one Because marriage is not just about what you want. It’s about what both of you are willing to build together.
So I tell you, If you want marriage, you must also be ready for the responsibility that comes with it.
Do you think marriage without accountability or responsibility can withstand hurdles? Lemme know👇🏼
