Dede's Vibe

19/11/2024

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Do you trust your instincts? The journey to becoming the best version of yourself begins with honesty, mostly honesty to self. Coming to terms with who you are from the inside is key to self improv…

02/06/2024

https://dedesvibe.wordpress.com/2024/06/02/fear-of-being-wrong/

What fears have you overcome and how? What is the fear of being wrong called? Well I just found out it’s called atelophobia, it is described as the obsessive fear of imperfection or making a …

18/01/2024

17/01/2024

Doing might be hard
It might be a bit uncomfortable
It might feel daunting
Sometimes doing might even feel wrong
It might look like you don't know enough to "do" yet

But through it all, it's still the only way to get results
It is still the only thing that's going to count at last
It is still the best way to figure things out
Doing is still the best way to learn
It's still the best way to get helpers involved

The best way to change the world, your world or any world for that matter is to start doing.
Overthinking is draining, that's why most often than not it leaves you with little energy left when you're done overthinking what you should have just acted on instead.
Like Nike said...Just Do It!
Do it scared
Do it shaking
Do it slowly
Just don't overthink it, just do it!

04/01/2024

I've learnt a lot about relationships. Let me share this one with you guys 😊

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What is the greatest gift someone could give you? The gift of genuine friendship is one that everyone desires but yet not so many people are willing to do the work required to build it. I think the…

21/08/2023

Understanding that your struggles do not define you is not easy to process, but it's a good antidote to help you stay grounded. 💪🏾

14/08/2023

I know you've got high standards and you want to be associated with the best of the best works. You wanna produce masterpieces and get everyone to pay attention, you want to strike the right cord and get the applause and praise. Why won't you? Expectations are high and you don't want to fall short in any way.
All that sounds good and honestly quite commendable, but the reality is you will still suck at some point and it will not be your fault entirely. There's no great and admirable work that didn't evolve from a series of awful ones and lots of trials. The point is that you must have to begin first.
Fortune as they say, favours the brave.
Brave up and begin!

10/08/2023

https://dedesvibe.wordpress.com/2023/02/02/understanding-quarterlife-crises/

Are you familiar with The Hero’s Journey? It is a popular narrative or story template that involves a hero who goes on an adventure, learns a lesson, wins a victory with the newfound knowledg…

07/08/2023

https://dedesvibe.wordpress.com/2022/10/28/sleep-paralysis-is-actually-a-thing/

When your nightmare collides with reality

01/08/2023

Sometimes it's easier to count losses than it is to count gains, but there's a special place in the stars for those who have mastered the act of gratitude. As you begin this month, let your blessings be the first thing you think of each day.