22/04/2026
Please post for me. Weāve been married for 8 months, but I feel like running away. My husband loves seex more than food; pls, I'm tired!
Before marriage, we dated for about 2 years. My husband, who was my boyfriend and fiancƩ then, wouldn't touch me, even when I made advances towards him into having it with me.
He always turned me down, saying he didn't want to touch me & that we should marry first. I was worried even wondered if he was impotent.
Until after we got married, I don't know what happened to my husband. He totally changed. He wouldn't let me rest. Since our wedding night till date, I haven't had time to rest.
I don't do hard work; I only own a fashion store & have girls working for me at the shop. But my waist hurts like I'm a cocoa farmer.
Most times, I spend all my time sleeping, even at the shop, & can't do any other thing. I don't understand how a man at 40 can be so active & flexible.
This man wants to kee me with seex - morning, afternoon, evening, in the toilet, in the city room, in our bedroom, & it's worse on weekends.
I'll set the table, Oga will refuse to eat, saying he wants to "eat" before he eats.
He comes back from work, but as soon as he enters the house, he immediately drags me to the room and asks for seex, even before taking his shower. Most times, I have to insist he showers first. SƦgz to this man is like an appetizer for food.
He'll even leave work at his break or lunchtime, rushing home just to come & "eat" before he eats as he describes it, before goes back. Please, is this thing really normal?
Most times, I'm shy to even talk to or greet our neighbors cuz of the noise I usually make especially at night. Please, is it that something is wrong with my husband? And How do I stop this? Please, you all just have to help me. I know I used to want this, but abeg, i no do again
I don't understand how a 40-year-old man will love to "whine" his waiist in bed like a teenager boy at puberty. Now, I'm 2 months pregnant, and I'm scarred of my husband's constant appetite for sƦz. I don't know if it's possible, but I fear it may cause me to miscarry cuz even now that I'm pregnant, he still doesn't allow me rest"
Please advise me