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20/04/2025

Expectations society has towards women in general can be overwhelming. It’s almost as if we are made for just that. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

18/11/2023

I might not know so much about life....but one thing I know is, it depends on which/what sides it decides to show you,then there comes your definition about LIFE.

But for me it changes almost everyday.
In a circle where I am so confused and at the same time determined to achieve a particular something and have a purpose.....
A meaning,an impact, and a large maybe not so large FOOTPRINTs.
There is more to life itself
And I also guess it has no meaning and it depends on us to give it meaning
Some said life is like a blank sheets (book) waiting to be inked.
Brutal, generous, wonderful,gloomy, dark,light, joyous...anyone it throws at you.
Your reaction either calms or blooms it, and give it a TITLE.

We deserve a wonderful life innit?
And there's an awkward one too.
Maybe dark or luminous, Life remains Life (mystery).
The title only affects our daily living.........

I had been so rough about it and it's mystery remains folded....... And I decided to take one step at a time in my very most calm manner and it gradually brings in meaning and unfolds my current aspects of it.... I also try not to be too curious and guess what ... I'm enjoying every bit of it and yeah including the sour parts 😹.
Happy weekend 💐
Fola_Writspek .

12/11/2023

We don't have to understand everything..
Life, situation....
For the sake of peace all we could or should do is BELIEVE and Keep BELIEVING, have faith in what ever we believe in, keep pushing, Being positive well maybe with a little bit of negative thoughts but let's not dwell in negativity. Yeah
Left and right
Rights and wrong
Yes and no
Positive and negative
There's an "and" word because we have the right to choose, the freedom to make choices.

Come to think of it Trying to understand everything disturbs one's sanity 🌝. Leads to curiosity 😜.
Stay happy.
And its good to be curious 🧐 also
But curiosity they say kills a cat 😹😹😹.
😊
Do it afraid regardless.

Fola_Writspek
✌️
Have a lovely week. 😀

04/11/2023

OUR THOUGHTS.

Refraining one self from overthinking and trying to learn how to enjoy a carefree lifestyle could be overwhelming and lead to a total shut down of our state of thoughts.

In my case It has always be my desire to think less about stuffs cause it's bring in nothing but more worries.
I get overwhelmed with my emotions and worries overshadowed me.
I had few people to talk to, because I do feel I speak a different languages when trying to talk to them. They just don't get it.

Gradually.
Untill I noticed I hardly reason about stuffs
I felt empty in my brain
My state of thoughts felt so blocked
It wasn't a carefree but a careless one

No hard feelings no bad habit
I just would literally wake up, eat, go to work,sleep.
I realized I lost my passions ,zeal....
Things I would see before and get excited or worry no longer bother me a bit.
It took me days to start questioning myself and my well being.
I just felt so free in the sense of emptiness.

After a lot of questioning by myself to myself.
I realized in the long run that....
I HAD REFRAIN THOUGHT AND ITS STATE .
I SHOULD HAVE LEARN TO THINK OF WHAT'S THE IMPORTANT AND SIGNIFICANT THING TO THINK OF.
I should have learnt or desire to filter some thoughts and hold on to the relevant ones.

I then concluded within me that. It's part of me Growing. So I embraced it and made sure I had no regrets whatsoever.

If you feel this way.. don't worry it's a phase you'll overcome it just make sure it doesn't overshadow you way too much.

01/11/2023

Overthinking consumes you Alive. Learn to take a thought at a time, a step after one. Live a life each Day 💫.

It's November 😊

31/10/2023

I remember losing myself after somebody broke my heart. I remember myself begging for love, but still, I've never been loved and treated properly. I almost lost my sanity for a love that never came my way. I gave my all, but that was not enough for someone to love me back. And that's when I promised that I would start loving myself more. All I know is that I need to love myself and move on.

I've always been so genuine with people. I always have pure intentions. I always give so much, even though there is nothing left for myself. But now I realize how important it is to have a little love for myself too. I've come to realize that loving too much can hurt a lot. I'm tired of suffering from the same pain over and over again. Now I want to give myself the love that I always deserve. I will no longer beg anyone to give me love; I will give it to myself and forget everything that once broke my heart.

01/09/2023

Coming up soon 😁

19/08/2023

Welcome great minds.
PLEASE READ TO THE END.
I am Folahanmi, I write,I share minds and thoughts on basic things and reality.
Let's rub minds,let's share opinions,let's concur,let's disagree.
I am stand to be corrected, I love learning.
Criticism is not allowed ❌.
Let's be mature. I am not a motivational speaker 🔇 but a realist. I bring topics,I write on them ,I share,you share your opinions.
You can also bring up your topics you want me to write on.

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Fully active by September 2023. Be expectant.

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