08/09/2026
What is ruining dating in Nigeria is poverty. When people start seeing dating as a means to get money, then love cannot happen. A struggling person cannot love; a person in survival mode cannot love.
She sees a man, and what she’s thinking about is profit and benefit. Some girls in Nigeria, once you approach them, they’re already grading you: okay, what is he wearing? What kind of keys does he have in his hand? If you now go on a date with them and you want to make payment, you see them trying to see your bank balance.
And you see some guys living fake lives just to meet up to expectations, and they are naked.
I don’t mind if a lady doesn’t have transportation to come and see me; it doesn’t matter. Anybody can be broke at any time. But in the case of “you are supposed to pay for it,” ahh Ochim, I don’t hesitate to block sharp.
Call me a poor man, any way you wish, no issues. As a man, you need to protect yourself and stop these things. You don’t need to just reduce yourself to a means of payment for someone with an entitlement mentality.
Some ladies will be like, “If you really want me, no issues, but I need to change my hair and get a new dress.”
Please, let me ask: are you just realizing that you don’t have clothes? So, have you been walking around naked like Adam and Eve? 😂🤣
“Look for value