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11/08/2025

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Between and wedding dress, which one will you pick.They're all pretty
11/08/2025

Between and wedding dress, which one will you pick.

They're all pretty

Flim the ring and the watch
11/08/2025

Flim the ring and the watch

11/08/2025

Congratulations OOO
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Blessed Monday friends
11/08/2025

Blessed Monday friends

11/08/2025

Congratulations to

10/08/2025

Declare this every morning before going out.

Happy birthday pretty Ada Ukwu Evan
30/07/2025

Happy birthday pretty Ada Ukwu Evan

🎭 Parenting No Be Beans!You see this parenting thing? Nobody warn me say e go be like this o!I used to think being a goo...
29/07/2025

🎭 Parenting No Be Beans!

You see this parenting thing? Nobody warn me say e go be like this o!

I used to think being a good mum na just to:

✅ Cook food
✅ Buy school uniform
✅ Shout “Will you stop that nonsense before I knock sense into your head!”

But one day, my twins: Emmanuel and Emmanuella (aka my small but mighty wahala partners) taught me serious parenting lesson that no dey inside antenatal booklet.

So that evening, Emmanuel walked up to me and said,
“Mummy, I’m not talking to Emmanuella again.”

I say, “Ah-ah, what happened?”
He said, “She didn’t say thank you for the sweet I gave her yesterday, so today I didn’t give her any.”

Small me wanted to say, “Two of you better get out from my front!”
But Spirit of Calm caught me by the wrapper.

I took a deep breath, sat both of them down like village council, and we started family meeting.

I asked:
🗣️ “Did you feel hurt?”
👧🏽 Emmanuella said yes.
🧒🏽 Emmanuel said he was “just angry small.”
Then we talked about saying sorry, using words, and not using cold war and eye power to solve problems.

That night ehn, I sat on my bed and just smiled.
Parenting no be gra-gra. It’s about connecting, not commanding.
We wey dem raise with, “If I slap you, your ancestors go feel it,”
let’s try another way.

Let’s raise children who can express, not suppress.
Who feel safe to cry, talk, love… and even quarrel the right way.

Now I dey try.
Sometimes I still shout small 😅
But I’m learning every day to be the kind of parent my children can talk to and not run from.

If you’re in this parenting journey too and you’ve had your own small parenting epiphany, drop a “💛” in the comments.

Tag one mama or papa that needs to hear this truth.

A Grateful Shout Out to Oporoto — The Free Medical Hospital Inside Eluama Health CentreWhen I was pregnant with my twins...
29/07/2025

A Grateful Shout Out to Oporoto — The Free Medical Hospital Inside Eluama Health Centre

When I was pregnant with my twins my Emmanuel and Emmanuella I was already close to nine months when someone told me about a free medical hospital inside Eluama Health Centre, popularly known as Oporoto, and run by Dr. Emmanuel Mbaka.

By then, I had already registered for antenatal at a private hospital and also at my local health centre. I had done scans and everything was going well.

But I decided to visit Oporoto just to see things for myself.

When I got there, the doctor examined me and kindly requested I do another scan. I did it and returned with the result and everything was still fine.

Let me say this boldly: Oporoto is not your regular “free hospital.”
The doctors and nurses there are incredibly professional, caring, and kind.
The environment was clean, calm, and the services were top notch. I honestly didn’t expect that kind of excellent care and completely free!

I gave birth there safely and without stress.
They circumcised my son there with care.
They even gave me free baby drugs after delivery.

Oporoto saved me a lot of money during that time. But more than the money, they gave me peace of mind and dignity as a mother.

Today, my twins; Emmanuel and Emmanuella will be six years old in just a few weeks.
And I’m taking a moment to say thank you to the entire team at Oporoto inside Eluama Health Centre, and especially Dr. Emmanuel Mbaka.

You are doing amazing work in Isuikwuato, and I’m a living witness to your impact.

God bless you richly for all the lives you’re touching. 🙏🏽💖

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